Ugh I feel your frustration however I'm lucky to not have that problem. You shouldn't have to plead with him. He's acting like a d*c*
My husband said the same stuff and I stopped washing his clothes and the dishes he messed up. I stop cleaning up after our son. He got sick of having to do it by himself and said he would help. I'm 36 weeks now so I don't do as much since I'm big and always hurting. Good luck
how far r u iam goin true the same thing