feeling lost and so low

[jodieantony]

not really about pregnancy but just need to get it out !! im 24 weeks pregnant with my second child and lifes just a mess atm im finding things so hard I feel so low in myself my partner is not being there for me at all he has a weed problem and its all he cares about and when he hasnt got money to feed his habbit its me who gets the moods taken out on , I love him to bits but am at my wits end im feeling like I shud walk out and do it all alone

[JulieKuhnert]

Which is more important, you and your children, or your boyfriend and his drug habit? Move out, I know you say you love him to bits, but if he loved you the same way back he'd put you and your children before weed.

[rod3]

What is important are you and your babies. Set an example that this is unacceptable (think of it as if your child was grown and was in this situation). I know it will be hard but give him a choice, kick the habit or lose the family. You cant make others change but you have control over your life.  Look for help in your community. There are a lot of resources that can give you information about his addiction amd how to help you. You can support him emotionally if he does decide to choose to get help.  but remember ypu cannot make him chamge to a man/father he should be.if you have family amd friends use them.you will be able to do it on your own and protect your children. You will set an example to your small but impressionable children how to be strong. Good luck love