rant: I'm finished can't take it anymore

[whisper3rdbaby]

It isn't bad enough that I have had a rough pregnancy and now looking at having to be induced because my cervix doesn't seem to want to do anything and with all the problems I've had. On top of it all my husband keeps me continuously stressed out to the max. Everything is supposed to be about him and the h*** with me and the kids. He continues to put me down on a daily basis always blames me for us being broke even though he keeps sending money to Mexicoaand giving to another female to help her with her kids and bills. He thinks I'm stupid and continues to deny his affair even though I've caught him on phone with her and he stays out all night 1-2 time a week and thinks idk what he is doing with all the money he keeps getting from atm. I'm so finished trying to make my marriage work for my kids, it's not healthy for me or them. He doesn't care about us no more, he just took part of rent money and my gas money to send to Mexico not caring if I can get to doctors or if we can pay rent because as he says it's not his problem he has somewhere to go. I just have to try and hang in there until June when kids get out of school but it seems like an eternity from now.

[OwensMadre]

I am so sorry darling! If he is like this with your daughter now I wouldn't want him around my newborn. If he doesn't care about you all, it's like why should you care about him? I hope it turns out great with you! Feel free to rant to me anytime!

[abbb01]

Im so sorry ur having to deal with that stay strong and do whatever u gotta do for u and ur babies! Good luck momma I hope it all works out u deserve to be happy

[heatherrk81]

Sounds like you need to make room for someone who wants to be ether for you and your baby, not someone who is actively undermining and tearing down what you're building. Start stashing money/immediately spending it appropriately, and get out. No child should see their mother treated so horribly as an example of a relationship. It'll be tough, but it's tougher with an uncaring a-hole as a partner.

[whisper3rdbaby]

I wish it was fixable but we been having these problems. My pregnancy was an accident and he wanted me to have an abortion but I don't believe in them unless there is an absolute medical necessity. So he doesn't care about this pregnancy or baby. He hasn't even bought one thing I used the extra money I got back from school to buy everything and I've even put it all together by myself. He doesn't even pay attention to the daughter we have together. And it hurts when she sees all these other men outside playing with their kids and teaching them to ride bikes and everything and her daddy won't do nothing with her even when she cries and begs him. And with the pregnancy l can't do as much with her as before.

[OwensMadre]

I'm having the same problem medically. Do I understand how frustrating and actually depressing it's becoming. I'm so sorry about him. Honestly if it's causing this much stress- I would flat out tell him. I had a problem with my husband a few weeks ago and I told him I'm not kidding around anymore and that we have a son that's now apart of our lives as well. I am so sorry that he is being like this- especially knowing the problem with your cervix and you already being stressed out. If you ever need anyone to talk to I'm here!

[ruby31]

Sorry to hear all that. ... But remember you must try to stay as calm and stress free as possible for you and your baby's sake. I know that's easier said than done, I've been under a lot of stress lately too. Men can be such a holes at times. Right now I think it's best you focus on yourself and having a healthy baby and you can deal with him and decide your future later. I totally agree with you though I would not tolerate or accept what he's doing. Good luck!

[bunnykissy]

Goodluck with evertthing, you are a very strong woman. I'd be locked up in prison for killing my husband if that was the case.