The key is to remain active during your whole pregnancy whether overweight or not. Yes, i do believe it makes labor a little harder but its just really important to remain active and that should help with the labor process a bit.
Thank you ladies for your responses :) I feel much at ease about labor.
I have heard that before but I think they are referring to very very large women instead. I am also considered obese on the bmi chart and I could stand to lose some weight yes but I wouldn't look at someone my size and say they were obese. I too am about a size 14
*if you are. And that has nothing to do with how healthy the baby is. Size doesn't matter much
There is more risks with labor of you are.obese. that being said there are more complications with a c section and being obese then anything because of blood loss, heart rate and overall condition. But we are talking obese. Not over weight
I am considered obese based on BMI (i am a size 14 though which is average for women) and not only have I never had a c section, both of my pregnancies and births were healthy, both births were without pain management, and fairly quick. Not only that I conceived all three of my kids (pregnant with third) on the first try (first ovulation cycle I tried)
Everything they say about fertility and being over weight is a bunch of bs. It used to be believed a larger woman was most fertile, which is why all fertility gods are depicted as being voluptuous.
If you get a Dr that gives you a hard time about your weight find a new one (or get a midwife like I did)
I was never told by my midwife "you should aim to gain south's 10lb"like you often hear and read.
All of those rules are just drs getting too involved in a natural process
No i am short and overweight.. I have never had a c section. I have heard that it can make labor harder. But it has not for me. I am around other ladies that where way bigger than me that did not have c section because of weight. I also know skinny woman who have had to have c sections and some that did not. I would not worry about that. Something else will have to happen just being over weight does not put you at having a c section