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sisters :/ .. vent

OK so I'm number 5 out of 6 girls, yes my mom had 6 girls lol. Any way when we were younger my older sisters used to be so mean to me and it wasn't till we got older that they told me they use to hate me because I was prettier than them and I thought wtf that's dumb especially cuz I use to be one of those girls that kept to myself the quiet one in the corner who always wore jeans and an over sized hoodie :( and now since I've become pregnant it'd like its started all over again they just put me down about it and one even said that hers should come first but not in those blunt words but yea any way I was told at 16 I wouldn't be able to have children and I finally came to terms with it then one day omg I'm pregnant and you'd think they would be happy for me but know they act like its the worse thing in the world at first I ignored it but now its getting harder to do and I'm just starting to become really depressed about it
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Dont let them get you down.... I am the oldest of 7 kids... 3 brothers and 3 sisters (27-me, 26, 22, 21, 20, 18, and 8)... the 22 and 20 year old are from the same parents (different mom than me)... the 26 year old is my full-blooded sister, and the others have a different dad than me. There are a total of 3 grandchildren in the family-- my sister (26) had the 1st, I had the 2nd a month later, and my brother (21) had the 3rd. I am having another one. My sister is really happy for me that I'm having another baby and she gets another niece, but is slightly jealous because she has baby fever really bad and wants another one. She needs to convince her hubby to have another one... We have implemented operation- Charlie Baby Fever (which is her hubby's name) and our whole goal is to give him baby fever by using my new baby. He wants to hold my daughter for a while? I'll take one for the team!!! Either way your sisters should be happy and excited for you and not jealous... this is an exciting time in your life. Congratulations!!
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Aww well don't let them ruin this special time in your life. I have 2 sister and I the middle one and my older and younger sister are best friends and always together I feel like the odd ball when I'm with them. My and my older sister used to always be together now I'm pregnant and live with my boyfriend so there's nothing to do with a pregnant lady lol. But hope they start to be nice I know how it's feels :/
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Oh my!! 5 sisters!!!
Well aside from you being gorgeous,  coupled with your pregnancy glow, they're likely jealous of the spotlight and attention you're getting. My sister makes little jabs at me and I just subtly dish it right back. Good luck.. don't let them get you down.. maybe distance yourself a little!
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Hold your head up woman. They have other issues so they need to make you miserable with them. Don't let it get to you. Either cut off contact or kill em with kindness. They feel the need to ruin your happy moment because they have none. You're having a baby, something you were told wasn't posssible. I say **** em! Live it up and don't let those biotches bring you to the dark side.
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