vent.. moments ruined..

[markysmess]

So i told my "best friend" i was pregnant and she called my sister the next morning and told her.. then i told one of my cousins and they told my brother.. then my sisters friend told my mom... ugh. I am sooo upset. I had it alll planned out. Now everything is ruined. I cried for a while yesterday..

[markysmess]

Oh yeah you got that right. I've known her for 8years and she had nothing but crap to say about me and how she thought I'd be as a mom.. someone who's a friend wouldn't talk like that. Not one person has responded like her. And he reason is she's "concerned".. screw that. She's always thought she's better than others and because she is married and I am not and she makes more a year than I am and have a higher stress life, that makes her a better mom. Screw that.. some people can just stay outa my life

[tabs4life]

Good for u.  No matter what the situation is that is wrong they way she is acting.

[markysmess]

The girl that called my sister, after bitching me out about my choice, and knowing I haven't put it on fb, posted on my wall and said, "congratulations on your pregnancy, hopefully you pull your head out of your ads before January" (my due date Jan 20th)... I told her she broke the last straw, I blocked her, and told her to eff off and to never speak to me again.

[dandi2014]

Some people don't understand that some things are not theirs to tell. Telling friends and family that you are pregnant is a very special thing.

[markysmess]

Yeah and hubby has two others and isn't looking to have another after this so its just great. Now there's a bunch of drama and I just want to move away... I am soo fed up!!!!

[tabs4life]

I knw the feeling.  Apparently people don't know that this is a special moment for mom and dad to share the news when we are ready :( my best guy friend told my mom becuase he was a jealous wreck.  We are not friends anymore and what sucksthe most is we can never get that moment back with the ones we loved.

[BearHunterMomma27]

Awe I'd be so.mad at my friend and .I'd chew her our and.tell her to blow me for a while. Lol seriously that's wrong any real friend would respect your decision  to surprise them. But you can still always do a big surprise for the gender when. You find out.

[squidbabeh]

That is terrible. :/ one of the best things you could ever tell people taken away.

Still though, it's a bummer, but the fact remains that you're having a baby. :)

[cecilia_morgan]

I had the v same problem you tell one perSon on my husband's side and within 2 days everyone knew even his 92 , year old grandma who lives 2 hours away I was pissed bc we wanted to tell her. No ppl can't keep their mouths shut and allow ppl to tell their own good knews :-(

[markysmess]

I havent gotten to tell any of my family anything about it first. And now they are all mad that they didnt hear it from me. . Like wtf. I am so upset this is probably my only child and its all ruined..