PREGNANT OR NOT? PLEASE HELP ME ASAP

[Ashley171819]

I had my recent menstruation last July 17, 2015. Now, it is already August 21, 2015 and I am delayed for 4 days already. Last August 15, 2015, me and my boyfriend had an unprotected intercourse. He did not wear a condom and he was inside me for about less than 5 minutes. Yes, that short of time only. I am pretty sure that he did not *** inside me because when he was about to ***, he immediately pulled that thing out from my vagina and took him about five seconds or more to burst it on my tummy. I saw it. BUT WHY AM I DELAYED NOW? PLEASE HELP ME. Could this be due to stress? Because I'm stress with school. But I don't want to compensate myself and set aside possibility of pregnancy. I WANT TO BE SURE.I'm still in school and could not afford to be pregnant at the the moment. I know this is our fault. We've gone too far. PLEASE ADVISE ME WHAT TO DO. Aside from delayed menstruation and slight cramps, I feel nothing -- just normal. And by "slight cramps," I mean cramps which are not likely felt except if you're to observant with your body. I don't want to be pregnant. Any suggestions please. PLEASE. PLEASE. PLEASE. Also, when can I take the pregnancy test for accurate result?

PLEASE HELP ME ASAP. IT'S BOTHERING ME FOR DAYS ALREADY.

[Ashley171819]

Guys. I took the test last Sunday and it was negative. I took it again the next day, again it's negative. And just last Wednesday, I got my period 'til now. So, I'm kind of relieved already.

[EmmaLizz29]

It is possible that you are pregnant. The best way to know is to buy a three pack of a decent quality test (my favorite so far was Clear Blue). If your period was already due, then you are ready to take the test. Then wait about two days to take the second if the first was negative. If the second is also negative, wait another two days to take the third test.

Don't be afraid if you are. I got preggo in high school, and things turned out way better than I thought they would. Good luck!

[2Birdies]

I would do buy the 3 pack. Take one today (or tomorrow). If it comes back negative, take another 2 days later. If there is even a FAINT line, it's positive! Either way, good luck!

[WinterBabyMaker]

Take a test! Buy the 3 pack from walgreens or cvs.  Next time it happens go to the pharmacy and get a plan B pill.  Too many easy ways nowadays.  Good luck. Don't freak out. No reason to

[maw4389]

In a few days.

[Ashley171819]

When will be the best time for me to take pregnancy test for accurate results? Today? Tomorrow? And how accurate are PTs? Thanks for your reply.

[maw4389]

Take a test. No one here can tell you if you're pregnant or not. You're period is likely delayed due to stress. Since you were likely in your luteal phase when you had sex, I would guess you aren't pregnant, if you are fairly regular that is.

[AsaSarantuya]

If your cycle is always refular, it is unlikely you are just late. If you do have irregular cycles and maybe PMS or cramping during your period it may just be delayed.
Take a home pregnancy test. Easiest way to know for sure. Even a very faint line is a positive. Being pregnant so young is hard I'm sure. The side effects of an abortion are worse however. I had to have one 5 years ago bc my pregnancy ended and would not abort naturally. It was the worst experience, haunts me to this day and I have suffered through years of health and hormonal issues as well as thinning hair.Never got back to normal completely. Doctors don't tell you this but there can be very bad side effects. If you don't want to raise a baby I would chose adoption.

[Pray4me2015]

Take an ept

Good luck either way

[applejack7]

It could be stress, that can throw things off in the worst way. I say be patient and take a test. Stressing won't help anything and just make a situation worst.

[Ashley171819]

I know. I understand. That is why I am asking for opinions/suggestions. I already said that it was our fault. Thanks.

[applejack7]

I have to agree with the above comment. Don't want kids, don't have sex. There is a chance you could get pregnant even if you do have protection. That's how I got pregnant with my first, the condom broke. But I was also ready for kids

[beckyyy1115]

Not to be rude and just my personal opinion.. If you're not ready to have a baby, don't have unprotected sex. Better yet, don't have sex at all. Every single time you have sex, there's a chance of getting pregnant. Even with protection.

[Ashley171819]

Seriously, I can't concentrate in school. Because of this. It's past 6 days already since we had intercourse and as what I've said, it was not too long when he was inside me. (Sorry for my words. I just don't have the luxury of time to find much more appropriate words to describe what really happened. I'm emotionally disturbed.)

One thing also, roughly 7-8 years ago, I experienced skipping mens for about 6-8 months. But when I entered junior high, it seems that my cycle was already normal. If I happen to skip mens, it'll just be one month.

But what's different now is that we did something. Could this be pregnancy? That's the last thing I would like to happen.

[cdfields]

You can conceive off pre--- however be patient and wait and take a test. If it us negative you should consider birth control as an option especially if you are sexually active

[chubbypescatarian]

As soon as I was one day late, I knew, took the test and it came out positive. But I know stress can delay it. If your not pregnant I would advise you get on birth control, condoms, morning after pill. Something please.

[Ashley171819]

Seriously, I can't concentrate in school. Because of this. It's past 6 days already since we had intercourse and as what I've said, it was not too long when he was inside me. (Sorry for my words. I just don't have the luxury of time to find much more appropriate words to describe what really happened. I'm emotionally disturbed.)

One thing also, roughly 7-8 years ago, I experienced skipping mens for about 6-8 months. But when I entered junior high, it seems that my cycle was already normal. If I happen to skip mens, it'll just be one month.

But what's different now is that we did something. Could this be pregnancy? That's the last thing I would like to happen.

[CammiLovesU]

I think since you're freaking out about it, you're throwing your cycle off its course.  There have been a couple of times stress caused this for me personally.  Keep calm, get a home test, take it on the 24th because that would exceed the 6 days after your missed period, and you'll find out.

[eesscott]

Yes, it could be just stress, but 4 days late isn't very long either.  especially since you had unprotected sex less than a week ago. You can take a home pregnancy test now and if it's negative, test again in a week or so if you still haven't gotten your period.  It takes a bit of time for the pregnancy hormone to build up enough to register on those tests.  Personally, I doubt your pregnant, but you never know!