Can i possibly be pregnant?

[Melisshhaa]

Hi everyone, I was (6) weeks pregnant and terminated my pregnancy on November 16 of this year. I took care of myself and obeyed all the rules and regulations in the healing process. I went back for my follow up appointment 2 weeks later and i was perfectly fine the doctor had said. I was free to go and was told i should get my period around 4-6 weeks after the procedure is done! Wednesday December 11 me and my boyfriend had relations and we were careful and used a condom. With the luck i have; the condom broke. I was devastated and i was so nervous and still am. I didn't know what to do i was helpless. I called the clinic and they said i would have to wait it out, they couldn't tell me when i was ovulating because i haven't gotten my period since before i was pregnant. I am nervous now, am i pregnant? Is it possible? It's December 17 and its past 4 weeks since the procedure and i still haven't gotten my period. I know i have to wait 2 weeks to take a pregnancy test and that would be on Christmas. Does anyone know if i am probably pregnant? I know i am not suppose to get "signs" but yesterday and today i have been urinating very frequently and i am very tired. I don't know if it is in my head, i doubt those signs can just come up sporadically. After my abortion i was perfectly fine. Help? P.S. Please don't harass me and call me names or say unnecessary things i am here for ADVICE not your judgment. Thank you for your time.

[Melisshhaa]

I was and then since i found out i was pregnant i stopped because i had to get an abortion. Nothing is 100%. Clearly..

[Ari_nana]

why dont you get on birth control if you dont wait kids right now?

[Melisshhaa]

Thank you for your advice as well. I suppose waiting is my best bet. I know I had an apt for my ob gyn and talk about birth control but before it this happened.

[KDQ]

After an abortion or miscarraige you are very fertile. Your best bet is to wait to see... Sorry I know that's not what you want to hear. You may want to consider a back up birth control in addition to the condom to prevent future worries. Good luck.

[Melisshhaa]

Also, i was pretty normal on a 28 day cycle. Now i don't even now if i am ovulating or not.

[Melisshhaa]

Thank you so much for your advice!

We bought trojan isn't that in some way reliable? Obviously not i suppose now that i am thinking about it! I spoke to the clinic they said after an abortion you are at high risk in getting pregnant. Like you said, i guess i will have to put it aside and wait. Time tells all i suppose.


Thank you!!

[Kaydiel]

I can understand the stress. To be fair think of your previous period cycles. Were they ever normal or on a strict 28 day schedule? Most women are not. If so do realize that your cycle was highly interrupted and might take an extra week or two to readjust all of your chemicals. To say u absolutely have to have it within 4 weeks may not be accurate for your body. Stressing wont help either. Best bet is to put the stress aside till Christmas when u can know for sure,  enjoy your holiday!!! buy better condoms,  and discuss with ur dr different methods of prevention once you have your period.