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Chance of me being pregnant?

So, I hate to give all this detail but I feel like it's the only way to get a good answer. Me and my boyfriend were just cuddling and of course things went a little further. We were in our underwear and he was on top of me, kissing me. He then got off of me and well ended up trying to finger me but he couldn't and so then he performed oral sex on me. Well I should've seen this coming with my first experiences like this (this is the first time I've done that type of thing) and the fact that I have some severe anxiety, I've somehow convinced myself that I am pregnant. I've gone over it a million times. He swears up and down he was not "wet" at all so there would be nothing to make my pregnant. He even had me take a pregnancy test the other day. It immediately went to the negative sign and never even changed in the slightest, so most would take that as a big fat no. But I haven't had my period yet. I have a very irregular period so this is normally not a big deal but even with the negative test, my boyfriend telling me nothing that we did would truly in pregnancy, and the fact that I have absolutely zero pregnancy symptoms I cannot get this out of my head. I will probably never do anything remotely sexual again if I can just get through this. I am having normal "pre-period" cramps for the past few days so I think it will happen soon, it's just not happening soon enough. Can anyone say anything about whether or not I am pregnant or over worrying or JUST ANYTHING PLEASE. :-( (I am almost 19 by the way)
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You just need to relax its probably thr stress of you worrying thats holding yout period back..so relax and it will come..
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Oh and you're welcome! Don't ever feel embarrassed to ask questions! =)
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Lol yeah she had to be lying. There's absolutely no way that you can conceive any other way. I'd relax about it, and you'll probably start your period once your nerves calm down. =)
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Thank you so much! You've made me feel a lot better! :-)
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The only reason I have this idea is because a girl I know was pregnant and swore the only thing she had done was "mutual masturbation". She said she was fingered and ended up pregnant.  I've been told she was lying though? That's really one of the main reasons this has bothered me.. Thank you though.
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It's all good! This is a forum for questions and support =) Alot of people don't have the luxury of being sexually educated. It's good that you at least have the courage to ask. But seriously sweetie, you can't get pregnant unless your man actually goes (and finishes) inside of you.
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He has to ejaculate inside you for you to be pregnant. You're fine. Foreplay won't get you pregnant.
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Thank you ma'am. I've been stressing and upset so much it's unbelievable, I'm just trying to be sure. Thank you for being understanding.
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Sorry to be so bothersome I guess... My sex ed in school was a one day thing and my parents don't talk about things like that with me. :(
My fear came from him being on top of me I guess since we were both just in our underwear. I don't know... I just can't get it out of my head.
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You most definitely aren't pregnant. You should probably have your parents or someone at planned parenthood teach you about sex or refrain from it.
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5691681 tn?1375735348
As long as he didn't actually go inside of you then you are perfectly fine hun. All that stuff is totally safe (from pregnancy anyway not stds lol)
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