help!!!

[jasmine_dominguez_]

Im 15 and im confused ..
I just had sex recently with.my boyfriend . Unprotected . He said he jaqulated 5 times coould i be pregnant?

[kasie11]

He guys this is supposed to be a support group not a let's all jump down each others throats....she had sex big deal everyone does it and calling her names and putting her down is just gonna make her find comfort with her boyfriend! Don't worry hunny god would not give you a baby if he didn't think u was ready just take a test and don't hid it from your parents it will just make it that more bad when they find out some other way!! Good luck...a child is a blessing not a curse!

[Jazzydoll]

Well sometimes things like teen pregnancy happen I've had lots of friends become teen moms and I never once sat there and judged them. I never did because I know I'm not perfect. And a lot of those friends needed that unfortunately but it made them be responsible.

[JulieKuhnert]

I never claimed to be perfect, but I knew better than to bring an innocent life into the world that I was unable to care for.

[Jazzydoll]

Not everyone chooses the same thing ******* that's the point. Some people have to make mistakes to better themselves. Yeah it might be harder that way but that's the onlyway that some people can learn. No one is perfect so people like you need to stop acting like you are because chances are you're not perfect yourself.

[JulieKuhnert]

Plenty of people from broken homes don't end up as teen parents, and plenty who are raised in good homes do.  We need to stop making excuses and start building these teens up to know they are worth more than just sex. How is saying that teens should respect and love themselves judgmental?  There is a lifetime for sex, but only a few precious years to enjoy being a child and teen. I've never heard a woman in their 30s or 40s say they wished they'd gotten pregnant as a teen, but I have heard plenty of women who had babies young say they wished they had waited.... that they love their children, but having a baby young made their lives more difficult.  Shouldn't we want these young teens to grow up with the easiest life possible?  Life is difficult enough as it is without adding more obstacles.

[Lily42783]

I have a cousin who's parents died while she was 11 she turned out good I grew up in a ****** up home in and out of Foster home mom alcoholic and abusive I got molested at 10 father never around... sorry jazzy but I have no Pitty for that of anything it motivated me to want to do and be better not continue the chain of what ppl expect from someone who grew up the way I did