Hi all
Im going out if my mind a bit about this :/
My boyfriend is an amazing man. He understands about everything Im going through with pregnancy and has been nothing but helpful and loving, helping with dinners and cleaning up as well as doing a full day at work and sorting out bills. He is looking out for me constantly and rings me when hes at work to make sure Im ok and hes been reading up on what to expect during pregnancy, what to do when I go into labour, booking a stork walk at the hospital and reading up on how to take care of a newborn. I know he will be a fantastic dad and makes me very happy.
So today Ive been cleaning the house and was clearing junk out if the bedroom. OH is diabetic and sometimes wakes up in the middle of the night with low blood sugar so has emergancy chocolate in his bedside table but with it being the middle of the night he just puts the wrapper in the bed side table and forgets to throw them. So I went to clear out all the wrappers and found a small plastic bag with a bit of white powder in it.
Before we got together he used to hang around with the wrong kinds of people but had now shunned them out of his life as he knows they werent really friends and they just wanted his money and his life was being affected by the drug taking and got clean. So I know he used to do cocaine and I said if he ever gets into drugs again I do not want to be a part of it and will leave but is now very much a changed man so I was absolutely mortified to find this. I talked to him about it and he was shocked and said he swore it must have been there from a long time ago because he is totally clean.
I have to admit there are no signs of him using (paranoia, stuffy nose, breathing difficulties, dialated pupils, being high and then low etc) so Im inclined to believe him. But we have our little boy coming in less than 3 months and Im worried to believe him and it be a lie. I will not have my little boy live in a house and be in a family where his dad is a drug abuser.
What would you do?