Gender Complications

[OrangeFlutterfly]

I am 20 weeks and have just had a scan to find out the gender. The lady who was doing the scan was a right old b*tch. When i asked her if she could see the gender, she replied that she could. I then asked he what ir was and she replied that she wasnt going to tell me. I asked for her reason and it was because she believed i should wait until birth. I was very upset as i had been in the process of planning a gender reveal party and my next ultrasound isnt until 30-32 weeks pregnant. Is there anyone who has had the same problem or someone at the hospital i could speak too.

[MrsJames64]

I definitely would have said something to someone before leaving but as others have stated your doctor should be able to confirm gender visit the scans.

[casee09]

Your doctor should be able to tell you. The scans are sent to your doctor so I would call your doctor, or if you have an appointment coming up, mention to your doctor what had happened,  and just ask your doctor to tell you.

[MommaBear8921]

She has no right to do that if there is more the 1 person who does the scan i advise you to tell them she has no say in YOUR pregnancy I wouldn't have walked out of there if I were you I would've demanded to speak to someone not really telling you to make a scene but you should have spoken to someone while there even another ultrasound tech tell them u want to know the gender and she dosent want to tell you so can someone else scan you