i am scared

[ghadghodaaa]

I am 24 years old..i missed my period which i was waiting on december 28..and i got pregnancy test..and thanks god ..i am pregnant..its supposed that now i am pregnant in six weeks..cuz the last period i had already was on december first..and 2 weeks ago i started feeling all the sypmtom besides the normal sypmtoms of mensturatoin..like abdominal pain and back pain etc..i am also had  bad breast tenderness and sickness which i know all are normal..cuz i repeated my pregnancy test at home also and i am pregnantfor sure..but i didnt perform blood test yet cuz my doctor very busy and my appointment will be after 10 days..but for sure if the pregnancy hormons appears on my urine i think its positively strong sign for my pregnancy beside all that symptoms..BUT

  MY PROBLEM:I stopped having all that syptoms except the normal cramps which i suffer from it like twice a day and the camps and the back pain not that hard..the normal like i will have a normal period,but my breast not tender no sorness and no more sickness..i dont know..my baby is ok??/i am really scared..it my fisrt pregnancy and i donno...i need that baby so bad..and i cant imagine i will lose it..i read about miscarriage and i knew that may baby dead before misscarriage happen by 4 weeks..i am really scared..my baby is ok??or died??and my hormons level started to down on my blood and no more syptoms..and i will start bleeding after weeks...by the way..i am checking my self regulary..no bleeding at all....plz help me ..i didnt even heared his heart beating..i didnt do ultrasound..i cant wait till i go to the doctor..i cant know there that i lost my baby..

[ghadghodaaa]

i went to the doctor today..and thanx god everything was ok..my baby is fine..and his heart rate is really perfect..the reason of bleeding was cervical polyo..i'm wondering if there is anyone here who has had cervical polyps when pregnant.  what were your symptoms? how was it treated? and if you didnt "do" anything, did it affect your labor or birth in anyway?  what vabout intercourse?/is it ok???i will experience bleeding for the 9 monthes if i didnt remove it?and i will leave with that spotting after every intercourse???and will be harmful??

[ghadghodaaa]

i go to the doctor today..and thanx god everything was ok..my baby is fine..and his heart rate is really perfect..the reason of bleeding was cervical polyo..i'm wondering if there is anyone here who has had cervical polyps when pregnant.  what were your symptoms? how was it treated? and if you didnt "do" anything, did it affect your labor or birth in anyway?  what vabout intercourse?/is it ok???i will experience bleeding for the 9 monthes if i didnt remove it?and i will leave with that spotting after every intercourse???and will be harmful??

[aferny77]

I agree with Tricia - please try to relax. I know how hard it is. Cramping can be completely normal in early pregnancy and many women experience it. Having one blood test done really will not tell you much - normally to be of value they will do multiple blood tests to make sure that your HcG levels are doubling. Also, by the time you have your appointment, an ultrasound should show a heartbeat which may ease your mind. Best of luck to you. :)

[ghadghodaaa]

no thanks god i m healthy..and there is no reason to think like that..and the cramps are normal..my appointment will be on 28 this month..but event i didnt go to the toilet that much as before??what do you think??all the sypmtoms start to faint

[SoCalTricia]

Do you have any reason to believe you won't have a healthy pregnancy? If not, then PLEASE try to relax! The stress is not good for you OR the baby! With this pregnancy, I have had very few symptoms, and at times I wondered if I was still pregnant, too. But if you've had no bleeding and no *severe* cramping, I'm sure everything is fine! When is your doctor appointment?

Tricia

[drmwvrjean]

i am so very sorry that you are going through this stress and worry!!  i have suffered 2 miscarriages, and 2 healthy live births.  after having gone through losing 2 babies in a row and then being pregnant with this one, i can relate to having that fear that something isn't right or could go wrong.  but please believe, (i do) that God does everything for a reason, even if we don't understand why.  

i would definitely have a blood test done.  they can tell by your levels how far along you are and can tell where your levels should be, etc.  i had an ultrasound my first appointment with this pregnancy due to me being considered "high risk" and they saw a heartbeat and everything looked good.  but they can't see much before 6 wks.  it is too early of a time to see the heartbeat, etc.  

please feel free to pm me anytime if you need to talk, etc.  i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!!  xxxxxxxxx

[ghadghodaaa]

thank you for your reply..you donno how its bad to think a bout bad thoughts while you are at home alone..i took an appointment with my health provider..but i dont think it will help..do u think  blood test will help..or i have to perform ultra sound..

i am praying to god all the day..and i hope every thing going ok..cuz i really cant imagine if i lost this baby..and my husband too wont bear that..he is kissing my tummy everyday and telling me that he si doing that cuz he likes to kiss both of us( me and his son)..how can he live if something wrong happened to the baby

[drmwvrjean]

i am not a doctor by any means, but a lot of times pregnancy symptoms will decrease over time and sometimes women don't have them at all or for a very short period of time.  i know it's easier said than done, but try not to stress....that can be the worst thing to do while pregnant.  do you have a clinic that you could go to, or even an e.r. for some blood work?!?  i wish i could be of more help but i wish you the best and please keep us posted!!