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Feeling alone...

Is anyone else on here going through their pregnancy solo? My fiance decided today after almost a year together, that he couldn't do this with me anymore. I can't sleep because all I keep thinking is, "My baby won't have a family." It's breaking my heart...
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I am in the same boat, feel free to contact me x
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I went solo for my first baby. I will admit it was hard plus being in the military was not making it easier. But I managed to get through it and now I am married with my second baby om the way. God has plans for us and he obviously knew those guys were not dad material. It will all work out. Trust me. Do not stress about it. Baby always comes first.
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I wish all you ladies luck! All our children will have loving, strong mothers who would do anything for them. And I suppose you can't be too sad about that, now can you? :) love to all ♡♡♡
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He cheated on me with his ex :/ I'm giving him his first child,and she couldn't give him a baby... But he cheated. I'm glad I'm not the only single mom to be
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I'm on my own too. And not only did the father bail, I've lost a few people I thought were friends because I chose to keep the baby instead of choosing termination. At least my family loves me and is super supportive of my choice.
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Where are you guys located?? Any of you in the LA area?
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Aaweee yall!! I thought i was alone in this and was a lil embarrased... Do any of you feel comfort in knowing that once the baby is born we wont mind as much not having these mfkers in our lives? Lol.  Waahh :( still sad... But happy im having my first baby.  Congrats everybody
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Its hard to accept and I'm fighting that same battle myself and can't seem to snap out of and be happy about being pregnant. I helped my sister get through it but can't seem to accept my own fate of going through it...my family is excited for me but I am not cause the father won't have anything to do with me now when we were off to great start I thought
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I don't really have anybody at the moment... which makes me feel worse haha but I know one day it will all make sense. Just right now with everything that's happening, I can't help but feel crushed.
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I feel for you! I met my boyfriend on vacation in November and came home to discover I was pregnant! He lives in Spain and while we try to figure out how to be together, I'm alone. We talk every day and have spent a week together in the past month, but it's still tough. while we really want to make things work, I have no idea what the future wil hold. So you're not the only one facing a challenging and scary situation - and you will be just fine no matter what happens! Do you have any good friends who can be your "pregnancy partner" and really be thee for you during this time? Be kind to yourself, know so many women have had babies on their own and led very happy lives whether or not they ended up meeting a partner shortly thereafter or not...your family is still out there! You'll just be bringing an extra, wonderful gift to the table. :)
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