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Annoyed with people comments and opinions

Is it me or people comments are just rude and stupid? Family and friend's keep implying how small I am for 6 months. It's annoying!  Doctor says everything is fine. The comments are nonstop.  Is anyone else going through  this? There comments are making me insecure.  
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I was overweight before becoming pregnant Im 23 weeks and have lost 15 lbs and have not gained anything back yet. My doctor said its fine and my son is doing well so I'm not worried. But  people don't even think I'm pregnant they just call me fat. Anyone who knows I'm pregnant do not think I'm anywhere as far as I am.
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I'm tired of all the cimments and advice. strangers randomly butting into my life like really.
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Maybe they're jealous? Could it be they wish they had stayed small? Just let it slide and focus on the HUGE blessing it is to have a baby growing inside!
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Im 24wks and on the tiny side as well. I get those comments allllllll the time. I usually dont mind much. Because i know my baby is healthy and growing. Dont worry about what people say. They know nothing. Everyone is different. Congratulations on your little pne
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Yes! I get because Im 25 weeks & doing zumba.I have been doing it for 3 years and dr says its fine.People have told me that why am I trying to lose weight or that why do it if im going to get big anyway.Its annoying and hurtful:( They assume things n blurt it out.
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Omg yes! I hear it all the time about I should be bigger, am I eating and so on. I think im showing enough and doctor hasn't told me any different.
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Omg yes! I hear it all the time about I should be bigger, am I eating and so on. I think im showing enough and doctor hasn't told me any different.
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I am just s little over 22 weeks with my first and no one can see that I am pregnant yet. My co-workers and friends comment a lot about how I am not showing and haven't gained any weight. I don't let it bother me. Baby is big and healthy. Doctor is not worried about anything.  I figure the belly will be here soon enough. Hang in there and be happy you have a healthy baby in you tummy :-)
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I am pregnant with my second child... And let me tell you... People are critical during your pregnancy, and it's even more difficult after the baby comes. People always have a comment and there's no way of getting around it. Just remember you are a great mom with a healthy baby growing inside of you, and after the baby comes you are a great mom!

Ps I gained 40 lbs with my first pregnancy, and only 4 so far this time around (I'm 22 weeks). My pregnancies are the same so far, never had vomiting with either, my diet and lifestyle is the same... Had a healthy baby boy a year ago and I have another healthy boy growing now :)
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Omg me to I'm 23 wks and no one believes I'm pregnant they say I'm lying and all these other things it makes me really mad to
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Yeah! But the opposite.
I'm tired of hearing "dang girl you got big"
I'm all belly and boobs right now gained 12+ lbs in the past 1.5 months so I'm about 150lbs.
It makes me insecure and feel like something is wrong with me i cant wait to see my doctor and ask if I'm too big.
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