All that worry for nothing! The NT result was excellent and my RE was all excited. She even changed her opinion about the amnio. At first she said that we should have it regardless because of my age, but with this result she felt that, depending on the blood work, I shouldn't have the amnio because of how hard we've worked at getting pg and the relative risk. She even told us that we could go ahead and tell everybody the good news. We're in shock.
My RE said that the baby was a good size, said I was officially 12 weeks with a strong heartbeat of 186. I'm officially discharged from my RE (pending the results of bw) and have my first OB appointment in September. I'm so excited. We can't get over it. We were so worried about the results that we had already prepared ourselves to not share my pg with anyone until 16-18 weeks (which was when we expected to have the amnio). Wow! I'm so happy!