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[tempy24]

Hello all, I've just found this site as JUST found out I'm 7mths pregnant...Ppl think I'm stupid for not knowing but my doc says cos u was such a small person etc, my sons are 12 & 20, I've just moved in with man of my dreams 2wks ago after  3mths together, its not his as he has had a vasectomy and I am in major meltdown as to how to break this to him? I can't hide it am starting to show now, I've only known under a week, and he thinks my health issues at the moment are from a cancerous cyst I've had removed. I want to be completely honest, its who I am as a person, I know he will take badly, maybe even violently :/ but I can't leave him wondering why I've vanished a cpl days but I just can't think, any thoughts would be greatly appreciated....

[bonnieella20]

If u r afraid of violence maybe u should write him a letter and let him read it alone. Then talk when he is calm

[NatFox]

I think he will understand if he is truly the man for you. I am a bit worried when you say he can get violent....do you mean towards you?

[tempy24]

Thanks for your msg Kathryn2015, and your right about speaking up and I think the sooner the better

[Kathryn2015]

I think it would be best to be honest with him, and btw your not at all stupid for not knowing, I knew a women who had no idea til she was 8 almost 9 months just had no symptoms, still had her period