I found out my hubby had done it once while i preggo and i went ape*** on him. I laid down the law and told him i will not have a high father around my child nor set a terrible example of what u should do. I am a bit more passionate on how i handle things, there may be another method.
Geez highschoolers! I would kick all their ***** out. Its my house get the f out! And as far as ur hubby, yes i totally agree with the other moms. He needs to support u during this time and not act inconsiderate and immature. Talk to him and be damn direct. Cant pull urself together, get a job and be a loving hubby and father, then peace!
If u feel like ur fighting for better but ur fight alone then it ok to on u have 2kids to babysit as it is u don't need and shouldn't have to babysat a grown a** man....u can do bad all by urself.
U deserve somebody that will fight with u and back u up at all cost not a boy who half steps..its too late to be half stepping anyway.
I know its hard because I can tell u want him to change but he has to want that too. And if he can't then u have to do what's besr for u
If he can be swayed and directed by a bunch of highschoolers, he does not deserve your time, or your children's time.
Just ask yourself if this is the influence you want on your children, and is trying to "work it out" with, for lack of a better word, bum, really in their best interest? Even more so, YOUR best interest?
We were separated for 6 months we have 2 kids together & got back together to work things out he was never like this until he met these d u m b a s s little kids
I hate to say it but maybe u should leave him. It will be better for u n the baby