Thanks ladies your probably right. He probably does fear the judgment
My sister in law called us from the hospital that she had a baby and we never even knew she was pregnant. Some families just have a different dynamic maybe?
y SO didn't tell his mom until I was a little over halfway. I think he was nervous about telling her that we are having another baby when we aren't married. He's 30, but his mother is very religious and wants us married. Since you used the term "SO", if you guys are unmarried, maybe he fears judgment?