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Cramps following orgasm...who knew!??

hi ladies!
I'm expecting my first on July 10 and it feels like the days cannot pass fast enough. I want to see a belly!  I want to hear a heartbeat!
I'm 35, and I feel this constant nervousness that something bad will happen.  I also feel like I can't truly feel excited until I get to that 3 month mark. I hate that part.
Anyway, I've been having sexy dreams every night for the past few nights and experiencing intense orgasms followed by cramping.  The doctor says this is totally normal, but who knew?!
I've also been feeling mild cramps every now and then and never thought that would be normal I guess it is.   And, I am so bloated. So gross.
Ok. That's it. I like that I can check in with other ladies in the same boat.
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I know the feeling i have crazy cramping after my partner and i have sex and also a couple of spots of blood!
I am sure its all nothing to worry about pregnancy does weird and wonderful things to your body
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6638094 tn?1454509201
I'm due July 5th and have been having dreams like that too...lol I'm too afraid to have an orgasm so we're going to try and wait until the 2nd trimester. I think everyone worries about having a miscarriage but after implantation has occurred and you're a few weeks in you have a much better chance of having a normal pregnancy. I still worry though but just keep reminding myself it will be fine! Lol I'm going for the heartbeat ultrasound on the 19th I'll be 7 weeks and then I'll be able to relax more.
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Im due July 10 and I had a similar experience! Super intense orgasm followed by painful cramping.. no bleeding tho.. haven't done it since! Too nervous! This is my first baby! Can't wait until Christmas! (I'll be 12 weeks)
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11100381 tn?1436779908
I have been very concerned myself. I will be 5 weeks on sunday, and even before I new I was pregnant, I've been having really bad cramping. My doctor said my body could be trying to miscarriage, but since I'm not bleeding I should be fine. Still makes me nervous just in the 1st trimester, though. I don't get to find out the gender for 4 more months, and it feels like forever. As for the sexual part, yep, up the wall, it's driving me nuts especially since I have no one to share it with. I'm due July 12th ^_^
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It's in gods hands. I'm not super religious, but after my miscarriage October 6th I found myself pregnant again. It's a miracle!
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Omg yes I definitely agree with you, I'm due July 5th and I want to hurry up and be further along so I can truly be excited and not worry so much.I also want to have my belly :/ The beginning stages are so nerve racking.... Although I believ in God & how he's in control of everything so we just have to be patient and enjoy this beautiful process. God bless you & the baby...Good luck with everything.
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