why and when!

[Pixynin]

I am 11weeks gone and keep getting cramps in my legs, feet and back never had this problem before and really new to this all! Is it normal to cramp so much if so is there anything I can do to prevent it? Also I'm freaking out due to the fact my midwife is useless doesnt answer questions or help me with anything almost as though she wanted me out her office as fast as possible... can someone please tell me what im supposed to be doing right now??? Havent planned or brought anything! Don't know when to start or where to start... when and how do I start telling friends and family? My first scan is in two weeks what do I do to prepare for it?!?!? HELP PLEASE!!!!!

[Pixynin]

Oh that's brilliant still have a while to go so no panic. Im due 4th June. Its slowly all becoming real. Atm im just feeling bloated and tired doesn't feel like there's anything growing inside of me. Can't wait to feel the kicking!!!  hope you and bump are keeping well! I appreciate the reply.

[Brittany12385]

No problem sweetie! I'd suggest having it about 1.5 months before you're due. You never know if baby will come early and you want to prepare when baby comes after your shower and have time to get everything else you need. I am 11 weeks and 1 day due June 1st. I assume you are due June 2nd?

[Pixynin]

Thank you so much! I'm a first time mommy.. only 17 years old and 11weeks pregnant. Have no idea what I'm doing! How far into a pregnancy are you supposed to have the shower?  Thank you for the help!

[Brittany12385]

First just take a deep breath and relax. Tellibg friends ans family can be hard but I think you should wait until you have your first ultrasound to be able to show them. In my opinion I wouldn't start buying much of anything until you find out what you're having if you find out that is otherwise id just wait until after you have a babyshower. And if you have a babyshower make sure you register for the things you really really need and then buy what you need afterwards.  Congrats!