Confused...

[Tatorbug_]

Okay mommies,
    I haven't had a period in 23 weeks. I've gained weight, but only in my belly. It's a rounded bump type. I've taken plenty of pee test and they all say negative... I went to the hospital cause I was hurting. First he told me that he found a heart beat that wasn't mine and the nurse told him she "felt it moving away from him". Then he told me I wasn't pregnant. I've felt little taps and swishing, sorta like gas bubbles, but they aren't. I'm sure of it. I don't know what to think. I've just been doing what I am suppose to do just in case. This would be my first. Help??

[Tatorbug_]

I go tomorrow to see my doctor. Finally was able to get an appointment.

[Livingmylifehun27]

Did you ever find out ?!?

[Tatorbug_]

I've finally found someone who cares and he is gonna do everything he can for us to find out. Thank y'all.

[happy1sttimemom2be]

You should have a blood test done my mom went through the same thing with me and that's the only way she found out

[scribblechick16]

Ask moms in your neighborhood you trust who they would go to. Find anyone recommended to you that your insurance covers. Definitely better safe than sorry when it comes to baby

[Tatorbug_]

I'm trying to stay healthy. I'm doing what I'm suppose to. I did go to the emergency room. They denied me an ultrasound even though I was paying for it. They told me I was pregnant then told me I wasn't because my urine came back negative. But you can't always tell with urine. Urine wouldn't tell when my momma was pregnant. Her hormone levels weren't high enough:/ I'm just gonna have to go to a dang good specialist that cares. The doctors where I live can care less.

[Cynn805]

Damn that's crazy ! Try to stay healthy sounds like you're pregnant or try finding any place that can give you a free ultrasound OR you can go to the ER say you have some sort of pain and tell them you might be pregnant I did that just to get an ultra sound I'm 23 weeks pregnant and I'm having trouble with my insurance so I went to the ER to make sure everything was fine maybe you shud do the same and they'll definitely give you an ultra sound and check you good

[Tatorbug_]

Hopefully! Thank you. Me too..

[mellynn717]

Hopefully u can find a dr who will do an ultrasound. And i hope everythings ok.

[Tatorbug_]

I asked them to do blood and an ultrasound but they wouldn't. They thought my uterus was turn so they did a pulvic one and I told the nurse then that something was moving. The hospital I went to the doctors don't care. I juSt got my insurance info and I am getting a second opinion! My mom was difficult when she was pregnant. They had to do an ultrasound before they found my sister. I hope there isn't anything wrong with me. I've always had regular periods. And Then they just stop...

[veryproudmama]

I would take their advice and get a second opinion from a different doctor. I had something similar happen, I was 28 weeks when a doctor finally believed that I was pregnant, but by then it was too
late and I had an emergency c-section within hours and lost my baby girl shortly after. Not all doctors care, but I'd find the one who does before its too late.

[AlllieKat]

Def see a different doc

[mellynn717]

I would go see an obgyn. Have ubhad blood work done? An ultrasound? I would have that done

[Kaymanchase]

Holy crap! Girl, go to another doctor. An OB/GYN. You definitely SOUND pregnant. Of course, it could be mind games, but 23 weeks is a long time, still. You need to be checked for what would be causing that if you aren't pregnant.