Ok, so I went to my ultrasound on the 6th...she was very rude and vague as to what she saw.....called the doc office on Monday because I was a couple days past 19 weeks and still not feeling much movement, the only thing he really suggested was to be referred down to University of Michigan Hospital for more testing....he really didnt tell me how the ultrasound looked or anything....talk about being stressed. Sooooo i called and got a appt with my original OB and saw him yesterday. The checked heart tones and it was 142. and then he looked over the copy of the ultrasound report and said that everything looked fine. talk about a relieve. then he asked me if i was able to find out what we were having and i told him that the u/s tech said that she didnt see any definate boy parts, but didnt see the typical 3 lines either. so he asked if i wanted to know for sure, and i said YES.... well my appt in feb they are gonna take a peek and see if they can see what it is. I did ask him when he thought we would be scheduling the c-section, as i know this being my 4th section and having the hernia that i am NOT a candidate for a trial of labor although i would absolutely love to deliver vaginally....it is just not in the cards. so he said probably around June 1st. I asked him if we could do it the previous Friday, due to kids having school and such. and he said that it is unlikely but would check. anyhow it looks like i MIGHT end up delivering June 1st instead of May 28-29....ugh....so i probably should be out of the May 09 forum. what do you girls think? should i leave or still stick around since it MIGHT be possible to deliver yet in May????
please let me know, Thanks.