Is it bad to feel this way already.............

[Jen133]

I want this baby out! LOL I am so tired, everything hurts, my legs feel very heavy.  I have this pain in the middle of my back that slowly escalades down to my lower back.  I' going to be 34 weeks on Sunday and I know is way to early for her to come out, but I'm just so tired.  I keep having this white discharge, and I don't know if I'm feeling anxious or what, but I don't want to feel this way.  Give me Ideas to keep myself busy for the next 6 longest weks of my life!!!

[kikicoates78]

Trust me it's normal, Until you think it actually maybe coming then your like OH PLEASE NO! Hang in there! :)

[Mommy2B51209]

I hear y'all... I am definately feeling the same way, one:  get out NOW, and two: no, not yet!!!  Can't afford a massage?  Go get a really good pedicure the kind where they rub your legs and feet for like 30 min. w/ hot rocks and oil and stuff... I did that the other week and (since you sit in the massage chair while they do it) it really helped me relax...

I've also been like buying little things online every now and then for the baby or the nursery, I'll order something, then wait for it to get here, open it, put it up, and admire it for a while... It's like Christmas every couple weeks ; )

But most of all, to relieve the stress on those days where I'm a total mess, I honestly just spend a few minutes praying and reading my Bible and turn on some worship music... It seriously helps get your mind focused back on the big picture instead of just the little view we have when we're feeling crappy.

Hope any of that helps... we're here for ya for sure... and with ya ; )

[hkenny]

I think we all have had or will have this feeling, its normal!! People that say pregnacy is easy and lovely are r e tarted!!  that or they have never been pregnant!! lol.  I was feeling tihs way a few weeks back when I did the crank forum post. I feel better now, you might find in a week or 2 you will feel better or at least some of your aches and pains will lesson. I recommend going for a massage, that made all the difference for me. Its pricey I know but its well well worth it. I felt like a whole new pregnant women after.

as for things you can do to keep your mind off it.......have you done the nursery? is there anything you still need to buy, are you enrolled in any prenatal or breast feeding classes? Any freinds or family you want to visit before you have a baby to tote around?
I hope you feel better, its crappy I know. On one hand its like ok get out! then the other hand is saying well she needs more time to bake!!

[mandy38]

I'm with you Jen, i've had enough and the thought of six more weeks is hell!!  If I knew how to make these 6 wks go quicker I would tell you, but I don't.  We just have to keep going with the end goal in mind!!