Just try and stay positive! (: focus on finishing what u need to so u can then put 100% of ur focus on ur daughter afterwards it will all work out!
The only reason Ive not become more obsessed with the situation is that I keep in mind the three boys I have now who need me to keep a head on my shoulders for their sake. That and school and knowing that right now I cant provide for her like she needs.
Good for you to be concerned for how she'd handle it. I think in the event that you do regain custody of her I would look into getting her a counselor that has dealt with similar situations. Its going to be very important for her to be able to maintain a close relationship with her grandparents.
Im not 100% sure about the visitation rights involving my hubby's son. His ex skipped state the second she was granted full custody plus child support and he doesnt know where they are except just what state they're in.
As for my daughter, Ive been told by a lawyer that as soon as I am capable (living in our own home, financially capable, etc) then I can go to court to at least try to get my daughter back. Im not sure what they were able to read from the court papers from 8yrs ago but according to the lawyer I saw it wont be as hard as people think to regain my rights as her Mother. My only concern is her well being. I want nothing more than to have her with her brothers but how badly affected would she be? Last tine I saw her she was a happy girl, I dont want to see the smile go away.
Awe I'm so sry to hear all that just doesn't seem right would u be able to get ur oldest back from grandparents ? Nd hmm maybe one day u can get them all together don't give up faith!:) u never know nd I can't say I know how u fel cutz I haven't been in ur shoes but just stay positive (:
That's a crappy deal. I don't think children should be kept from their parents unless the parents pose a threat to the child. You guys should still be allowed to see them a reasonable amount even if you don't have custody. Have you thought about going to court to try for more visitation?
Aaww!!. I hope everything turns better for u guys. I wish ya the best to get all ur lil ones together...