I went through same thing when I had my first child my sister had a baby one month after me and now she is pregnant again and I'm due in about 7 weeks and she just announced she is like 5 weeks pregnant about a month ago but I don't feel nothing bad about it because our family is going to 17 grand children but my family is not going to have a baby shower for me either because it's my fourth child and it's her second or they just don't like me lol but either way it go it's their lost not yours u will get every thing u need and more.It's just ***** for ur family to treat u like that
I'm sorry that you are going thru this. It's also happening to me. My sister in law found out she's pregnant and now I feel all weird it's like it's your special time and now you have to share it. Shes 8 weeks and im almost 31. She bugs me about what she thinks that the gender of herbaby and called my mom to let her know that she has to start making her baby blankets and hats for her baby. Dam my mom is trying to make my stuff really she has a long time to go still. She is acting like its baby number 1 and its her 4th. try not to stress hard to do right.
You worried about your baby let them be them. I know how you feel and I learned how to ignore it, all your baby need is love and you will give him that