jealousy in families?

[neetakaren]

Anyone else had family fallin out with them due to u having kids n them not having kids??? Trying to make out ur a bad mum when they have nothing to base it on?? So stressed out as ive now lost my mum, sister n brother thro family fall out 8 weeks before my baby is due xx

[neetakaren]

Really glad im not alone. Have cut them out altogether. But having a go at me because ive cut them out after being accused of battering my baby girls and them saying they gonna take my kids and unborn baby girl off me. There is no need for it at all. Sister was always jealous cos she hasnt had any kids and now im on my third baby its gotton worse xx

[Mrscofmn]

Oh yeah been there and still doing it.  Family members are odd that way.  There might be rays of sunshine but then followed by intense darkness.  My husband and I have written off all of our family except the Grandparents.  It's bad when they get the brunt of the jealousies too.  Ours has to deal with first born issues and overly competitiveness.

Stay strong and create your own family circle and friends.  Know that is harder said than done.  Remember you are not alone.

[thec80]

I thought I was the only one who had a family like that. My sister didn't speak to one of my sisters when she got pregnant 5 yrs ago (she sadly passed away last year), I couldn't understand it. Now that I'm pregnant she doesn't speak to me. Told me I never think about her, and where she's gonna get the money to raise my child cos I can't look after myself.( I'm a highly qualified social care worker and have worked as a full time carer for last 16 yrs with all different ages) She has also turned most of my family against me and my partner and the only people who actually talk to us are my mum and oldest sister who lives in a different country. Its so horrible and I feel very isolated, thank God for great friends. As for my partners family they seem even less interested, his mum constantly tries to split us up and has even asked for paternity test so no support from that side either. I'm excited about meeting my little bundle of joy and having my own little happy family.