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Ultrasound yesterday
So I have had 3 ultrasounds and so far they are consistent with my period and what have you. I am wondering how accuract they truely are. I am very scared and shameful to mention this but for almost 19 months I have been holding this in and havent told anyone, I am driving my mind crazy and I have noticed a huge mood change lately. I will give you guys the story and let me know what you think.
Back in October my boyfriend and I broke up because he wasn't working or going to school and he is on probation and he wasn't doing things right. He was making our life a living hell and so very,very stressful. I didn't think I could be with him and wasn't willing to sacrafice my future to be with him so I decided to call it quits and do my own thing. So I moved out. Well I ended doing a fling with someone i knew til about the middle of December, but during this time we talked off and on and my guy ended getting a job doing better in school and making his life a better situation for his future. Well after much consideration I knew that we needed to try it as long as we were both willing to do the very best that we can for our future.
Well here is where I am so very, very stupid and disappointed in myself. We got back together around the 22nd of December. I called it quits with the other guy by the 18th, I knew that I could not do that. I didn't want that. I went out of town from the 23rd of december to the first of January. During that time I had done nothing because I feel that as long as you are in a relationship you are in that relationship. I had my period on the 26th or 27th of December. At the end of January I missed my period.
I have had 3 ultrasounds, I had one on at 9 weeks and 5 days, I had one at exactly 11 weeks and then I had one yesterday I am 18 weeks and 6 days today. I am having a boy!! I am due on October 1,2008. My Dr. told me I had gotten pregnant around the 9th or 10th of January. If this is the case I have nothing to worry about but if I got pregnant on or before the 18th of December then I would have a HUGE PROBLEM.
I am so scared and not been able to talk with anyone about this. I don't know what to do. Are these things correct?? I don't have the nerve to tell my boyfriend. I know I would tear his heart apart. I can't do that to him but if I am wrong God help me. PLEASE HELP!!!!
Back in October my boyfriend and I broke up because he wasn't working or going to school and he is on probation and he wasn't doing things right. He was making our life a living hell and so very,very stressful. I didn't think I could be with him and wasn't willing to sacrafice my future to be with him so I decided to call it quits and do my own thing. So I moved out. Well I ended doing a fling with someone i knew til about the middle of December, but during this time we talked off and on and my guy ended getting a job doing better in school and making his life a better situation for his future. Well after much consideration I knew that we needed to try it as long as we were both willing to do the very best that we can for our future.
Well here is where I am so very, very stupid and disappointed in myself. We got back together around the 22nd of December. I called it quits with the other guy by the 18th, I knew that I could not do that. I didn't want that. I went out of town from the 23rd of december to the first of January. During that time I had done nothing because I feel that as long as you are in a relationship you are in that relationship. I had my period on the 26th or 27th of December. At the end of January I missed my period.
I have had 3 ultrasounds, I had one on at 9 weeks and 5 days, I had one at exactly 11 weeks and then I had one yesterday I am 18 weeks and 6 days today. I am having a boy!! I am due on October 1,2008. My Dr. told me I had gotten pregnant around the 9th or 10th of January. If this is the case I have nothing to worry about but if I got pregnant on or before the 18th of December then I would have a HUGE PROBLEM.
I am so scared and not been able to talk with anyone about this. I don't know what to do. Are these things correct?? I don't have the nerve to tell my boyfriend. I know I would tear his heart apart. I can't do that to him but if I am wrong God help me. PLEASE HELP!!!!
If your doctor has calculated your conception date to be after Dec. 18th, I'd stop torturing myslef. Move on. I don't think it's possible to be your old boyfriend's baby if you got your period after you stopped seeing him. I wouldn't say anything. Just put it behind you and forgive yourself. You didn't do anything wrong.
Yea, only because we broke up for like two and half months and didnt get back together til Dec 22nd. During that time I did something very very stupid and i regret it so so much. It would kill me if it wasn't his.I think I cry about this everyday and I have sleepless nights from it. It is stressing me out so much and I dont know what to do. It is so frusterating and hard but I did it to myself. I am super disappointed in myseld.
I only worry if I got pregnant in the middle of December or before. I would never ever cheat but I feel as though I did even though we were broken up.I just want to scream.
I only worry if I got pregnant in the middle of December or before. I would never ever cheat but I feel as though I did even though we were broken up.I just want to scream.
If you are due october 1st you should have concieved around the middle of January so you shouldn't have anything to worry about. r u worried about who is the father??
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