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dad not wanting to be involved ?

I'm 7w+3d, I recently found out I was expecting & when I told the father of my child he said he wants nothing to do with this child. Due to us sharing different religions and his family will not be accepting. Now I'm thinking about aborting because I'm so scared to do this on my own :(

Any advice ? Similar situations
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U know all u people think how it will be easyer for u and if ur ready and all that think about what if u would be aborted by your parents and never be born that's a human that's a soal just like we are and when things are gana be hard only this baby will pring u so much joy and happiness plus this girl that even her mother doent want to help her she staing strong and positive u go girl if u were ready for sex then u need to grow up and be ready for a child too
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I agree with Bamazon. At the end of the day only you can make the best decision for your situation. I wish you all the very best for the future no matter what you decide to do...sending hugs xx
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No **** I'm hormonal and you are rude I'm not mad at all either I just found that comment rude and put like you were aiming towards me have a nice day why wouldn't I be hormonal Lmao DB
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inspiring story. Good luck to you and I hope it all works out for you xx
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I don't see why you're so upset. My comment had nothing to do with yours, in fact I didn't even read it. I'm sure you're hormonal so have a nice day.
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I went through that and I still am but I need to mother ****** stay strong
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Bamazon she also asked for simaler story's or advice and I believe mine is similar and good advice she can do what she feel regardless I wasn't telling her to not I was giving her advice you prick
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You prick she's clearly going through a lot I felt the same way and I would of loved to hear someone tell me to stay strong stfu
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Honestly its up to you and your beliefs. People will judge regardless. Either way its a life changing decision and you have to be strong to make either choice. Don't do what people tell you to do, do what you want for you and your future. Good luck and I wish you the best whatever choice you make.
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I would not do that honey I was 8 weeks when I heard my baby's heart beat it's living.
My baby's father and immature on again off again bf is Muslim, and I'm  born again he's a student and little younger.. I have different goals believes everything **** English is his 2nd language
Sometimes we get alone sometime we don't
I moved back with my family he's in a different state bsing with his boys
I lost my job and my mom wants me out in 30 days and guess what girl I'm keeping my baby I'm 10 weeks today and no matter what I love my baby I'm gonna do t his alone and I'm gonna do my best you can too believe in yourself just like your life that baby's life is a gift
It needs you more than you need your baby father same for me keep your chin up stay strong beautiful
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