I have my own house ( everything in my name) but he pays for it all. Well is supposed to but no bills have came up yet as I just got the house and paid some things in advance. It's has gotten so bad that around $400 got "lost". I'm just so afraid that if I try and do it by myself that I will end up loosing the house and I have no where else to go. I have a sister that lives in Texas but I live in North Carolina and don't have the money to get there
If at all possible I would be trying to get out of that situation. Being around what he's huffing like that could be very dangerous to your baby and the child you already have. If he can't get it under control our better off without him. Drugs can quickly make a person forget their priorities and really hurt the people they love. Tell him he needs to stop and if he can't give that up for his gf and children there's a big problem.
Your kids shouldn't be around that and you shouldn't either it's not good for any one
His drug use is just going to make things worse
Pray to God, you have a very tough situation :/
I hope everything turns out well for you