FEDD UPPP!!

[Patriciaaa02]

I'm soooo sick of my bf family !!! Every time I see them they got something to say !!  Yesterday I went to my mother in laws house to say hi n they were having a yard sale and my mother in law was trying to get me to buy something but honestly I wasn't interested in anything just because I wasn't that's it and she was showing me stuff n my sister in law was like u know she don't shop at these kind of places n my mother in law showed me a guess shirt n she was like well will u buy this shirt it's guess and I said no first of its a extra small n I'm pregnant that doesn't fit me n jokingly I was like ya know my fat self need a large right now than my brother in law told my mother in law don't show her stripe shirts that's Gona make her look fatter n he told me you're fat right now like seriously idk how many times he called me fat smh n my mother in law was like well before pregnancy she wasn't fat she's just pregnant right now n my sister in law was like nah she was fat omfgg I wanted to say something so bad to her about her weight since she's a really big girl Before pregnancy I was 130 lbs size small/medium in shirts and size 7 pants idk how that's being fat just bc my butt is huge doesn't mean I was fat before But like always I bit my tongue I'm sooooooo tired of them alwaysssssss talking crap about my pregnancy I'm really thinking I'm just Gona stay away from them the rest of my pregnancy

[Patriciaaa02]

Yeah I highly doubt it'll ever change that's why now i know to stay far away as much as possible especially now that Ima have my baby I don't need that drama around my daughter and that's why my bf I moved a little far away from them bc they were stressing him out and he didn't want to be around them like that anymore

[african_mama_bear]

Wow that's crazy that y'all can't even talk to them w.I drama goin on smh sounds like my family which is why I cut them out of my life until they get it together and learn that life isn't about drama which will probably be never for them what y'all need to do is just worry about y'all child y'all dnt need one another going to jail over b.s if they can't respect u especially at a time like this calling u names eff them you dnt need drama especially not with a baby involved they may never change and once ur daughter comes they may still be the same or even worse talking about u around her which is another reason why I cut my family off cause u not about to argue and talk s.h.I.t about her father every time we come to visit and she is around while they do it hopefully they change and y'all can come together but if not dnt force it and make yourself miserable cause misery loves company and that's what it sounds like they want and you giving it to them

[Patriciaaa02]

I hold my tongue bc the whole family be there especially his mom and i know when I say something they all Gona attack me and I'm just trying to stay off bad terms with them for my daughter on the way and my bf does tell them off and than a whole arguments starts where cops have been involved before bc his family calls the cops his family just have anger issues and i told my bf right now his fam is not invited to my baby shower bc my whole pregnancy they've been nothing but negative towards me from talking crap about my weight to why my feet get swollen wtf

[african_mama_bear]

Idk what you hitting your tongue for if your brother and sister in law are disrespectful towards you one I will tell your hubby to talk to them and if he can't or they don't listen then stand up for yourself you don't have to take that from them they're just your brother and sister in law now the mama in law is someone to just watch what you say but still don't take abuse or negativity from her but yea my sister in law with my first pregnancy was the same way saying slick stuff not about my weight but they judged me because of the type of females my hubby use to have around but we were dating for two years around that time and I'm not those other girls so she felt she can judge me w.I knowing me I stood up for myself and she ain't say nothing else now we are having our second child and they see the type of mother I am with our first and they got to know me and they love me and always wanna hang out it just starts with you defending yourself you don't have to do the neck rolling eye rolling hand snatching bad language thing just talk and they'll have more respect for you

[Patriciaaa02]

Than my bf tries to tell make me feel like I misunderstood he wana act like I understand Spanish I understand it perfectly I know what they really Said n he always defends me too he beat up one of his other brothers along time ago when he said something about me and I appreciate him always having my back but I hate when he wana tell me what they really said when I know perfectly what they said

[Charmainebutts]

Just ignore them! You don't need the negativity!