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suspicious. ...

Okay I have a question... my husband and I share a phone and I was asleep awhile ago well he left for awhile but he took some selfies on my phone and my history on my Web browser was deleted. ...would you ladies think that's curious? I don't want to seem like a psycho....but we've been having issues and he's been treating me like crap the past few days....should I be worried...and if I ask him about it he's going to say I'm dumb and to not worry about it...
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134578 tn?1693250592
Did you ask your friend's mom if you can camp out there while you get things together?  Can your family send you some money to take the bus to them?
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My car is broke :/ my situation ***** and we are literally so broke he cant fix it...and I don't have a penny to my name...:/
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Meaning, do you have a car?  (So you can leave?)  And do you have family elsewhere?  If you are only an hour from Dallas, there are shelters there and you could find other assistance also.
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Do you have a car and family elsewhere?
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75124, and no I'm broke he makes the money. He wouldn't let me work.
Thank you (:
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So glad you are being strong. He will realize and regret it, but if he tries to get you back I wouldnt go for it. It would be so stressful to be with someone you cant trust.
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What is your zip code?  Are you in range of a big city?  Do you have any money?  
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There's no shelters in my area
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I'll have to look into that. So far I think I have a friend that might have the space for me but she lives with her mom so ultimately I have to ask her...but her mom loves me so there's a maybe.
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Oh honey I'm so sorry but ur staying strong and that's a good start. Do you have anyone who will be able to let you crash with them until u find somewhere to go? A friend? Coworkers? Or hotel? Until you find somewhere to stay? I have stayed at temp housing/battered womens shelter before not sure what the requirements are for the one in your area but you should give them a call.
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No I don't :/ and hopefully the next one is smarter than I was -_- I can't understand why he would do this -_- I'm always here for him...I'm carrying his child...I'm took his last name...some kind of stupid to loose someone that knows you inside and out and loves all of your flaws...men. are some STUPID creatures dude....
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Im so sorry that happened to you.. either way something was obviously going on if he is snap chatting pics to her. Thats so messed up. I really hope your ok, you dont have any family you can stay with? :/
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Just remember your not going to be the first and last girl this happens too. You leaving someone you obviously care about is probably the hardest you can do especially with a baby on the way. It's called respecting yourself and if he can't do it oh well show him that you can
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It's alright. The baby and I deserve a man not a childish boy. I don't have a place to go right now but I don't care I'm going....thank you ladies for all of your help pray that stuff will work for me and that maybe his next "wife" will castrate him. He just wanted someone to clean his sin infested boxers screw him.
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Oh honey. I'm so sorry. I hope things work out soon.
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Thanks ladies. I just asked him about it and he was snapchatin a girl I don't particularly care for and he KNOWS it. She is dating his best Friend and he told me he left and went over there and he told me (surprise, surprise) she was over there, and he wasn't. I've just started packing my things cause I can't tell you how many times I've asked him to not go over there with her there cause she likes him. Anyways I'm done. He knows I don't like it. So screw it.
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Go to pof.com and type in his name. U might have to make an account but u can delete it
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Maybe he's going on dating sites? I go through my boyfriends phone and he knows I do and doesn't care cause I let him do the same. But if he's deleting stuff and you know he is, that's definitely something off.
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Well my only thing is he literally has no free time away from me aside from his job he started 2 days ago..so I dunno who in the hell he'd be seeing and talking to ...
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That sounds like a cheater to me be careful he might be playing you
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Well the browser remembers his password so I can get in. I just can't figure out the archive cause there's only 2 messages and they don't look like anything
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U can get to the deleted messages on fb its called the archive. and u can get the password as well lol. Sad that I know all this  
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Like the past week we've been fighting over everything..I mean he won't even really help me choose out a homecoming outfit for our baby :/
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That's why I haven't asked him about it because I don't have any rock solid proof
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