partners girl as a friend

[Tia2015]

Hey ladies woke up this morning to find my partner on the phone to hes old girl as a friend and they havent spoke for about a year or so as i got weird last time because she writes xx and sends pics and apparently she is always like that and they havebeen friends since they were teenagers amd he is now 29 but i found out that hes mate gave her hes number and i feel very pissed about that and i feel like he should of asked first, anyway i feel very down now and dont know if im over reacting but i just get jelous and feel like they have so much to talk about they used tp talk for hours and now i sit here everyday and can barely get a convo in because we dont have that anymore as of we been together for three years
Am i over reacting :(

[Audriekate]

Well i no in my relationship we dint allow girls as friends or guys as friends its just werid and drama does get caused  but just talk to him and tell him you dont see the need for him to talk to someone when his got you ;)

[Tia2015]

Its not hes ex sprry i didnt put it right its hes old friend from school and she gets very attached and like does xx and sends pics and i know they been friends for a long time but i went funny a year ago and they stoped talking and now there talking again i just get jelous as they talk for hours and we dont

[Audriekate]

I would never allow my partner to be friends with his ex ever...

[Tia2015]

Thankyou heaps i got four weeks left so im just thinking of baby to keep me strong :)

[takeasha]

My dear, no you are so not over reacting. I totally get where you're coming from..i went through the same thing close to the beginning of my relationship..its hard, and sometimes it makes you pissed, sad, and all these other emotion at once..dont crack like i did, i went crazy only because he didnt tell me the first time ot happened.but we sat down and talked about it and i told him it made me feel a little uncomfortable that he would talk to someone that hes had a relationship with before.luckly he stopped but i guess just try and sit down with him and talk to him about it, if you havent already that is..i promise it'll be okay though. Its not worth stressing over in the end. Good luck.