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So Upset trying so hard not to cry.
My boyfriend and his mom just keeo talking bad about me behind my back. My baby shower was november 9th and i havent gotten to my thank you cards yet.i have Had many blood tests done and ultrasounds because i have bad kidneys. I have a doughnut on my car until i pick my paycheck up today. And him and his mom just wont give me a break. How stupid i am fot driving on my doughnut to work and back but i have no choice. I asked my bf for 20$ for gas and he has not shut up about how before i do anything with my paycheck he needs his 20$ back. Im so frustrated and upset. He calls me physco all the time. Im trying to hold it together but just dont know if i can anymore.
The 3 nice things he did for me last weekend and yesterday was take me out to texas roadhouse and to see dumb and dumber too. Then give me 7$ to buy a new sweatshirt that actually fit me and wasnt too small. Tonight he went black friday shopping with his friends then to to shoot trap but doesnt even want tospend the rest Of the night with me. says hes going coon hunting. I just completely ******* exploded. Im to the point of not even being sad just pissed the **** off. Im done.
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I agree. You've really tried to make this work hon and he's not treating you like something important in his life that he cares about. I can't do enough for the people I love!! He can't do much at all, ya know?
Your mom's home is where you need to be.
And counseling just flat out work in this situation. He doesn't see anything wrong with how he treats you. he doesn't see anything he needs to change. it's worthless to spend money on counseling. counseling works when two people are trying to work together. He's not gonna be a part of working on anything.
Just go to your mom's. Enjoy peace. Enjoy people that worry if you can't drive, worry you've had enough to eat, want to help you. That is what you need in your life. good luck
Your mom's home is where you need to be.
And counseling just flat out work in this situation. He doesn't see anything wrong with how he treats you. he doesn't see anything he needs to change. it's worthless to spend money on counseling. counseling works when two people are trying to work together. He's not gonna be a part of working on anything.
Just go to your mom's. Enjoy peace. Enjoy people that worry if you can't drive, worry you've had enough to eat, want to help you. That is what you need in your life. good luck
What's good about him? I mean that completely sincerely.
He doesn't care that you go hungry all day, he's mean, he's cheap, he talks about you badly to his mother, he refuses to participate in counseling, he constantly tells you to stop complaining (because there's no food although he buys himself food and eats it).
Can you think of one thing that's good about him? And by that, I don't mean a past memory you have of when you were both happy together and he was decent. Right now, is there anything at all that he's doing that's nice?
He doesn't care that you go hungry all day, he's mean, he's cheap, he talks about you badly to his mother, he refuses to participate in counseling, he constantly tells you to stop complaining (because there's no food although he buys himself food and eats it).
Can you think of one thing that's good about him? And by that, I don't mean a past memory you have of when you were both happy together and he was decent. Right now, is there anything at all that he's doing that's nice?
Im sorry im just super upset and keep trying to work things out but it just seems impossible. I told him we could do couples counseling before our daughter is born thats the only way i will stay. And he said he would go but isnt paying for any of it, it can go under my insurance and hes not going to pay attention to any of it. Ugh i just am so frusterated. But thats the only way i will stay. He says he loves me and wants us to be a fmaily but sure isnt acting like it. And rose yes i just got my last paycheck from my job which was 40$ i gave him his 20$ so he would shut up about it. But 20$ is my savior right now.
I went back and read through your story to remind myself.
Does your mom still want you to come live with her? I'd do that, today. This home is toxic.
It sounds like you're being paid still even though you're on medical leave? That's great - you have some means to help out at your mom's house.
You sound so sweet it's awful to read what these vipers act like around you.
Does your mom still want you to come live with her? I'd do that, today. This home is toxic.
It sounds like you're being paid still even though you're on medical leave? That's great - you have some means to help out at your mom's house.
You sound so sweet it's awful to read what these vipers act like around you.
I would leave that's sad you guys are in a relationship its not like you a random person he loaned money too I'm sure nobody but family and friends building up his obvious stupidity I hate when people rather talk about others instead of helping the situation
I would leave. Honestly, you are worth so much more than a lousy boyfriend who demands money from you and openly talks crap about you. And allows his mother to do it, too. Good luck, honey.
Sorry your having to go through that. But I personally would not stick around, especially with a man who demands money back from the woman who is carrying his child and also not taking the initiative to fix your car so you and your unborn have safe travels where ever you need to go. I also would not stick around with a man who allows his mother to talk badly of me because once that starts it doesn't stop. These are jist things I would do, you have to do whats best for you. Good luck.
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