SEX !!!!!

[jennjacks]

My husband never wants to have Sex & I want to have sex everyday ! Does he not get that once the baby gets here I won't be about to have Sex for a Long time ?!!!!!!! That makes me really upset

[Nov_miracle2014]

I Have The Same Issue With My Partner TheiR Thinking Is That They Don't Want To Hurt The Baby I Even Get To Understand That Some Men Are Turned Off Once You Are Pregnant.... I Myself Don't Even Try To Quarrel WithHim About Sex Anymore

[jackiew1114]

I know exactly how you feel! My fiancé claims he wants it as much as I do. But since finding out in July, since about mid June we've probably only had sex like 5 or 6 times. I'm going crazy! Makes me feel less attractive and insecure too which doesn't help.

[ashlii00]

my partner is the same... does make you feel even more unattractive than i already feel with all the spots and stretch marks and so on.
i feel you on the well after babys here we are gonna be bleeding for some time after... and i dont think my vag is ever gonna be the same again! its scary to think about...

[HoHoHolly]

Try pleasing him first, im thankful my bf is still very much in love and turned on with my body, but, i find it sometimea easier to just pleasure him and focus on him sometimes, it attracts him to me more or whenever hes not in the mood it tends to so the trick, read up on some stuff about sex during pregnancy and how to even out a healthy sex life.

[ericatoday]

I had the same issue with my bf. Once I got super pregnant the thought of the baby made him just not want it. I hated it. But now that I've had my son I don't mind waiting I'm so busy sex isn't even on my mind and all the non sex we had at the end doesn't bother me anymore. You get over it. But when these 5 weeks are up I'm getting some :)

[Rcas28]

I'm just over 31 weeks and I am unfortunately in the same boat as you ladies. The guys just don't understand how being huge makes us feel unattractive, then for them to not want to have sex *****! I thought my boyfriend was just a weirdo but I guess it's kind of common..

[kcanario]

As a previous post I am quite thankful hubby and I still do it quite often and im due in 3 wks... and as she stated-try to pleasure him first. I do oral or just sometimes rub his chest and kiss him softly.my hubby is an "as*" guy so when I lay down I just lay on my right side and back my as* to him purposely so he gets the hint lol good luck mamas

[jackiew1114]

Mine has told me he finds pregnancy very attractive and he'll never think less of me and will always be attracted to me. One of thr bigger issues I have is that it seems I'm always the one that takes initiative to start it. I want to feel wanted, this has been a problem for probably about 10 months now and I've told him how I feel and just get the same thing "I love you and want you and will always find you sexy no matter what and I know I need to get better at showing it."

[miraclemom22]

Mine is same .. Not had sex is 3 months I do only have a few weeks left to go but I feel lik pullin my hair out.. If he is that afraid all the pleasurin in the world won't help trust me I have tried everythin!!

[jennjacks]

Well Thanks ladies . I don't think he's scared of hurting the baby I just think I've turned him off . After I have my child he's gonna with he gave me some .! & as far *** oral ! This is my time ! These 9months are MINES . I don't mean to sound selfish but Hey I have gotta any oral in a while so forget him n his penis ! I need some pleasure  

[shaeewow]

Lord!!! Icant keep my man off me.. !!!

[LoveJackiee]

Your lucky ! Lol My boyfriend stays glued on me :( and now that I'm super huge i don't want to have sex at all.  But he won't understand that. The beginning of my pregnancy i was horny all the time but once I got into my 20th week I wanted to stop completely. But noooooooooo -.- I'm almost 34 weeks and he still wants to do it.

[jessika2009]

Lol my hubby wants it every day and bso do i so its amazinggggg maybe just make him feel more comfortable

[Elma_Long]

I can not imagine how you feel right now! :( I am 36weeks pregnant and we still have as much sex as we have had in our 3 years of relationship, even more now :) so i guess i am very lucky, have you talked to your boyfriend about this? And have you told him how this makes you feel? :/

[Elma_Long]

I ment your husband not boyfriend sorry :)

[jennjacks]

You women are So lucky , I'm So jealous ! Maybe things will change if not I'll start to think he's just Not that into me Anymore !

[jennjacks]

No biggie Elma :)

[MegaPregoFTM]

Im in the same boat! My finance rarely wants to have sex with me. And as it is I feel SO unattractive.. and when he says no to me it makes me feel worse. I don't know what to do. Ive tried pleasing him first and trying to turn him om but I swear he starts thinking of his grandma or something because he gets hard but then gets soft immedently... he always says "later, not right now im relaxing" he makes it sound like its a chore to have sex with me and it makes me feel like ****.. I mean dont get me wrong I get laid.. but I have to force it on him and almost make him have sex with me. After we get going he sends ti enjoy it but I just want hun to initiate it sometimes ya know?  I don't always wanna feel like in making him have sex eith me.. I want hun to just grab me and drag me into the room and start something awesome for once instead of me dragging him in there and jumping on him! But also I feel like if I just wait for him to make a move id be waiting for the world to end! He just doesnt seem to understand that when the baby comes there's not going to be a lot of sex!  And hes not going to be able to just ********** inside of me every time... man if I was a man I would be going everyday 100x a day! Im a female and 28 weeks pregnant and I want it everyday 2x a day! I think its time to invest in a toy ladies!! It's great to know I'm not the only one going threw this on my own..

[briiab20]

Well I can't keep my husband off of me lol I guess men are just different! A blessing nd a curse! Hope everything gets better love he'll come around :)

[babyberry000]

Does he think hes going to hurt the baby?

[momtoscarlett]

For awhile i couldnt have sex with mine and for some reason it made him want me more and i felt bad bc it was putting my daughter's life in danger, i gave in a few times but now im allowed to have sex and he's like oh why do you wanna do so many freaky things now. He still want to every time i do but i see me putting more of the effort now. Sorry to the lady's that dont get any. Try grabbing his part firmly ;)

[mrs_melody_oliva]

This is my 4th pregnancy and he never has thought he would hurt the baby.. he loves having sex with me pregnant or not!! Tmi but he says the vagina feels awesome wen pregnant lol... Men are different.
And it depends on them how the see and handle things also.  

[jennjacks]

I Completly understand megaPrego , we're in the exact same boat . I want him to want to do it but that would be like waiting for the world to End

[jennjacks]

It's So crazy & I'm Married ! It's like pleasure me or I'll think about giving it to someone who wants to have Sex with me


Don't get me wrong ladies ,!! I would never ever ever cheat but it feels like the right thing to say when I'm mad about him not giving me Sex !!!

Toys would do me no Good I need the Real Deal holy field lol !

Fact of the matter is I Want SEXXXXXXX LOL