So depressed

[Cindy0624]

i been so depressed n stressed since i gotten pregnant, its just one bad thing after another. I lose my best friend cuz she doesnt support me. The baby father leaves me to do dis alone. My mother tells me i embarrased her. Im not doin anythin but workin n goin to school to make sure my baby girl has wat she needs n all dats happening is bad . Y ? Its like the pain never stops

[Cindy0624]

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[B1128]

It's usually the people who leave when you are at your most vulnerable are weak. Sadly, a lot of pregnant women sometimes get more help and generous offers from strangers, even if they just pay for their drink in line. Now when did the world come to that? When you can look up to a stranger more then any one you can call a "friend" or "family" if they're willing to leave you alone in such a vulnerable spot (pregnancy with or without support I think we are at our most vulnerable) all you can do for you and that baby, is just that, all YOU can do.

Be proud! Be proud of yourself for working and for going to school, you're doing great!!! Don't allow these f.ucks the satisfaction. Don't give them the time of day, don't waste your breath on such a.ssholes! You are already so much better then them.

Best friends don't leave, she's not a best friend and doesn't deserve such a reference. The father is a loser, and when you give birth you can get him for his because you cannot get yourself pregnant and a DNA test will give all that you need to get his support, willing or not. Don't let him bring you down, you CAN do this by yourself. Your mother is just beyond words in my book. Don't waste your time.

If you can find support from anywhere, try too. I don't know if you are religious, I'm not very but I do believe and can find great enjoyment in a good church. But maybe you could try to find a church in your area, not just any church, one that truly catches you. I've only found one of these in my life and no longer live in that state to be apart of it. But I believe if you find a church that you can truly enjoy, it somehow brings out your faith and does guide you. Mind you, I'm not religious. This is just what that church showed me, after 23years of living. There's a church for everyone. And at church, you can always find the best support! From those around you, from strangers!

Don't give up. Keep going. You're doing great. These people are just being stupid, what you have is so much bigger then them anyways!!!! Allow your baby, you being a mother to give you the strength you need to tell them to bite it! You don't need them.

[B1128]

Damn. Blab blab blab lol. Sorry it's so long sugar!