@turkey this is my second marriage. I had a very low tolerance for bs in my first. This marriage has taught me that I could have probably made it work with my ex. I commend your strong nature, I guess I'm just unconvinced that it's ever truly better.
@turkey_club_0214 everytime I try to talk about how I feel he blows up and says hurtful things. Its like my feelings dont matter. Im trying to stay positive and hoping he isnt hiding nothing.. but after lastnight I feel he is.
Tat I know what u mean. My mom thinks that way too. I in the other hand, am tougher and expect a lot from my husband. Past relationships made me this way. This is our first baby and it's not like I would walk away just over a stupid fight, but I have very little tolerance for bs.
We have had problems on and off. But I still stay through the bad bc our good times can be amazing but I didn't marry him to get a divorce. Marriage is hard but I also feel im the only one trying to make it work.
It sounds like he is being shady and just avoiding your questions. I would confront him and ask him why he is acting that way and that it has to change. My personal believe is that if he avoids the conversation again, he must be hiding something. I hope not. Just make sure you are firm and tell him that you are getting tired of his attitude.
I don't know what it is about pregnancy, but it seems to be the hardest time on a marriage. Some people are lucky and have it great. Others feel like their spouse is drifting away in a different direction. I know how you feel, but our problems were there before I when became pregnant. A lot of the time I think about how much easier life would be for me if I just left, but then I think of my son and my unborn daughter, and know they deserve to have a family. A lot of people say that isn't enough of a reason to stay in an unhappy marriage, but in my opinion, if there hasn't been any cheating or abuse, I have to deal with the consequences of my decision to marry this person.