depressed

[boobieloc]

So my stupid bf is cheating after he just tried to accuse me. Im pregnant so thats really the last thing on my mind to do. Since he questioned me i went through his phone while he was asleep. Im sick of his **** wth should a girl do

[B1128]

Make the best choice for you and your baby. Taking a mans s.h.i.t and disrespect just because you have a baby on the way is no way to live and no reason to over look it! What would you do if you didn't have a baby on the way and this happened? Men don't deserve more rights then we do in a relationship, with or without a baby!

If you can't bring yourself to leave the relationship, I suggest leaving to stay somewhere else, give yourself time because you DESERVE it. Maybe talk to him, let him know that you know and that you refuse to allow yourself and your baby to stay in this situation. Tell him he needs to change and if he doesn't you will be leaving. I don't know that I could ever get over something like that with my boyfriend now, and I don't know that I would let myself and my baby be in that type of situation. For my baby, I've allowed myself to become a lot stronger then what I used too be before her.

[realnewfiegirl]

Same thinf happen to me :( my bf said he was gunna be there every step of the way he cheated on me back in oct .. i didnt find out til dec :( i stayed with him as much as it bothered me cuz i really love him but i noticed since i found out in dec he has been really distant and i heard he was on drugs (coke) and talkin to a couple other girls so i left him like 2 weeks ago .. its supper had :( but i was so depressed i had no other choice . Hes only felt my baby kick once ! Thats actually crazy. He text me yesterday after i said something to him he said he missed me and was thinkin about me but yet he still havent tryed to get back with me si why would he say it ! Hes an idoot . Leave him ! U deserve better and its super hard at first i still find it hard especially today because i got all these emotions back :( but u need to step uo and leave his ***

[shelbalou]

Even if its hard especially when you're having a baby together you don't deserve to be cheated on and you need to kick him to the curb. Don't let him get to you, cheating is not okay, there is never a good excuse to cheat, especially when you have a baby on the way!

[christinah90]

Yes I totally agree with alanatb. Leave him he sounds like a pos my daughter's father did the same thing nd I left his ***. He's had no contact since nd I been doing it 5 yrs by myself nd with another one on the way I finally got an amazing man who accepts my daughter as his own. You just gotta find the right guy for you and the baby it may take time but it will happen. Nd in all honesty you don't need a man to raise a baby especially one like your bf  

[alanatb]

Get rid of him.. hes obviously not going to be there for u and your baby if hes cheating on you he doesn't love or have any respect for you. You can do this on your own until someone that thinks the world of you and your baby turns up. Goodluck :)