I don't bring it up every time cuz that would be too many fights but what I'm doing is gonna work on myself so if he ever does stray for real atleast I never got comfortable and he would have helped me grow like an annoying coach
Guys look at other women all the time. It's like programmed into their brains. Also, guys aren't mind readers. If you don't tell him how it makes you feel, then he's going to keep doing it. Just because your bf looks at another girl is no reason to leave him. If he was flirting with women and talking to them behind your back then that's a different issue. I think it's just your hormones.
I used to, at this point I no longer plan to.
Have you told him how you feel?