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Ok ladies its not related to pregnancy just need your opinion... my husband is in medical field and we are having second child together..I found out that some crazy nurse had a crush on him...she was calling tge house number and everything my husband didn't want to tell me so I won't get mad...he is super nice and I felt like that nurse kept on taking advantage of that so the other day she was texting on his phone when he blocked her several time b4 but she keep downloading those random apps and calling him and texting him he told me that she had a mental breakdown and he feels bad for her..but I keep checking his phone u know how wives are..so the other night she was texting him again and talking **** about me oh u r not busy..u r with ur wife that disgusting and all kind of crap so I started answering from my husband phone and told her that I knew who she is and all..so she didn't text or call next two days and when my husband went to work she texted him again..and started crying and ****..my husband told her he could nt talk to her and she said she understan..do u think she will come bck
He is a dr its not hard for him to find an attractive girl if he really wants...but I m still carefull I m not going 100%by anything just yet...
Yeah I understand...but I m not talking about recent messages I went through his phone he wasn't aware of it and went into his deleted voice messages two years ago and she is talking **** like call me or I will come to ur house and tell ur wife u r cheating on her n crap and then y did u block me n stuff...and trust me it would've been different if she was attractive or so she weighs atleast 40lbs more than my husband...have a daughter..I hate personal criticize anyone...but just saying and those messages are maybe year after we got married..and we have been together 7 years...dated 4 years and married 3...and my husband is not a bad looking guy or anything or hve low self esteem in anyway but he does help out people all the time...
Are you sure he's not leading her on? I know you said you check his phone all the time but how can you be sure he hasn't deleted messages since the last time you looked? It seems really suspicious to me. Sorry, it's just that I've seen this kind of story before where the wife finds out about the girl so the husband does everything to make his wife think he's the innocent one being pursued by the girl but in reality he's full of it because he's still carrying on with the girl behind his wife's back. And he thinks that calling the girl crazy and pretending that she's the aggressor that his wife won't know the difference. Maybe that's not the case in your situation but I've seen it here so many times that's why I'm suspicious. I hope in your case that he's being truthful because it would be so horrible if he was lying about this.
Please keep my family in ur prayers..I hope that ***** go away for good...
Beside he is a doctor so I m sure he was trying to deall with her as a patient...but she went far way too far...and started taking advantage of him I thank God that I found out otherwise it might would've dragged longer...I got mad at my husband too to try to hide that crap so long...but listening to her voice messages it really seems like he didn't wanted me to get involve with this craziness..
She uses random numbers I didn't think u could do that but apparently u can some free app ****...because everytime he blocked her she called from different numbers and threatened him that if he don't talk she will do this and that and he didn't know how far she could go...I mean she sound so crazy on those voice messages...
I thought he blocked her? How do her texts keep coming in?
Ohhh I gotcha.... yeah best thing he can do is transfer her to another doc.! I hope she stays away for you and your family's sake!
Luckyoctober The reason she had his number because they have worked together she used to be his nurse...thats what I told him he probably will have to fire her as a patient...I told that girl when I cussed her *** out 2 days ago that find a man who isn't married...I m just praying to god that she go away for good...
those kinda women make me so mad, she should find a man that is not married...
those crazy ******* always come back. tell your husband to put an end to this.she shouldn't have his phone number or be his patient. they start by wanting pity and then they want something else like you man for example. he shouldn't be opening doors that are dangerous. my opinion good luck.
I am so sry sweetie.... but if she's his patient then how did she get his personal number?
I m just worried because we are happily married..and I don't want some crazy ***** to ruin that..
And she is his patient too...
She is actually on disability..and not working anymore..she told him today that she will not contact him again....but we will c...I m checking his phone all the time though to make sure that ***** go away permanently
Oh the crazy ones always come back. If you both just don't text or answer then she will eventually go away. That's what my husband did to the crazy chicken that wouldn't leave him alone.
That's what I'm saying!
I can tell you from living life a few years that she is being led on by your husband some way, shape, or form. Nice or not when a man is adamant about being married & faithful a woman won't keep chasing him. If he didn't want her advances he would have taken care of it.
I think it's weird he didn't tell you OR hasn't reported her to human resources. Feeling bad for her or not she is harassing your family and if your husband is truly innocent in all this then she is harassing him. If she is As unstable as your husband is making her out to be then she shouldn't be working and taking care of patients anyway. I personally think there is more to the story then this but if there isn't then the first thing he needs to do is file a report with human resources. If he doesn't then he isn't As innocent as he's making himself out to be. Good luck Sweety. Be careful cause people are crazy and she could try and hurt you and your family.
Why hasn't he reported her to human resources? He needs to do that first and foremost, obviously you guys telling her to stop isn't enough, mental breakdown or not, it's completely inappropriate. I don't think there is much that you can do until she starts threatening your family or directly harassing you. Your husband nerds to take care of this.
Unprofessional and disrespectful. Mentally unstable? And a nurse? Well its harassment. And for your husband to try and not tell you seems fishy.. spooky.. if it continues.. I'd call officers in or whatever and file restraining order..
Unprofessional and disrespectful. Mentally unstable? And a nurse? Well its harassment. And for your husband to try and not tell you seems fishy.. spooky.. if it continues.. I'd call officers in or whatever and file restraining order..
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