In an abusive relationship -GET OUT

[Miyu19]

For those of you teetering on whether to stay or leave, get out and don't look back.

She always feared him and was told, leave him and stay away. Now she's gone, I've lost a friend because he was a coward and took her with him.

I hope you women can learn from this and save yourself, your friends and family some grief. I hope this helps someone out there to have the courage to leave.

http://www.dailybreeze.com/general-news/20151012/torrance-woman-in-apparent-murder-suicide-identified

[KelzLanigan]

I totally agree… i was in an abusive relationship from 2005 - 2009! i only left when i woke up one morning from a 3wk coma my exe put me in… realization kicked in and i didnt want to leave my 3yr old motherless… i left with my daughter and our clothes on our backs… i have everything i need/want! My daughter us now 9yrs old and i am in a good realtionship of 5yrs and am 12wks 6days pregnant! im sorry to hear about your loss

[anwhatin1]

I am so sorry for your loss I can relate my husband's sister was murdered by a stranger but she was taken to soon as was your friend.
Since starting this post I have read several post about abuse happening and we always say get out but your story I hope will truly hit home with some of these girls on here.
Take care and we send u our condolences

[Miyu19]

Thank you gals. I just read posts here about being in abusive relationships and I really hope some of these gals will read this and it will give them the strength to leave or reaffirm their decisions so they dont look back.

She was the best cook and such a kind, selfless, beautiful soul. She usually didn't put up with bs but "love" can blind a person and it did blind her.

[Mrsjackson0406]

So sorry to hear about your lose. I stay on Westchester so Torrance is not too far. I totally agree to leave an abusive relationship. It will only get worse.

[dianaexoh]

I'm so sorry for your loss and for your poor friend.
I agree, it's not a situation to wait around on.