Sex while Pregnant

[Brittny27]

Oh my gosh! I can't believe how much I DO NOT want to have sex. Poor BF I feel so bad and every time he asks or tries to I feel even more guilty for not wanting to. It actually hurts and then for a few days I'm soar. I really wish that I could have sex right now with out it hurting. We went from having sex every day some times twice a day to 2-3 times a week if that.

How do you deal with not wanting to have sex when your partner wants it still? I think I'm gonna try and talk to the Dr today at my appointment about this.

[Clysta]

I didn't have one for a reallly long time. I never got pain, but the nausea that kicked in during and right after made me want to die. We decided to stop when I almost got sick on him during. It's slowly starting to come back, but we're waiting still.

[Ameliababy1]

I'm the same, well it doesn't hurt me but with my nausea my sex drive has just been thrown out of the window. Anytime I get slightly excited I feel the need to throw up. Luckily my boyfriend is understanding and said that he will make up for it once I'm feeling better....how sweet haha.
Hope we can all get back to our usual selves when we get into the second trimester!! :)

[finallyamommy2003]

OMG... I feel the same way... with 5 YEARS of TTC... My DH and I always needed to book time to make the baby...
Now it seems that he can't take his eyes or hands off of me... don't know what to say or do about it...
I asked him what is wrong and why he is so more excited then before. He said that now he doesn't have to have the pressure of trying to make the baby...
Well if should be more fun for me....
Since I don't need to put the pillow under my *** and stay in bed for 20 minutes afterwards....
GOd...

Hope things change really fast... HE never would touch me with our 1st child... HE didn't poke her eye!!!!!!  hahahaha SO I don't really know what so different about this one.....

[jschoch8]

so true, i have absolutely no desire. Its funny because ive been having orgasms in my sleep though :) Youll just have to take care of him every once in awhile.

[Ingy77]

Oh thank goddness i'm not the only one with no sex drive. I read they say you have either a very high sex drive or just don't want it at all. Maybe it will change in the 2nd trimester. For my DH sake.

Hey there's always is Mrs Pamler.... hahahaha

[nola0805]

This is so totally normal, and I am experiencing the exact same thing.   All of my friends and family say the same thing happened to them in the first trimester.  Everyone also says that sex drive really increases in the 2nd trimester so you and and your BF have that to look forward to.  It may help if your BF knows that this will not necessarily be the case the entire pregnancy.