nervous after 3 miscarriages

[samgunn]

So I have been trying to stay positive.  But I am 10w6d and I just have that fear that my next ultrasound will be bad. Like no heart beat or something. I have never been blessed enough to get this far into pregnancy before.  I dont think that there is anything I can do to stop this feeling.  Is this normal? I feel like I am going crazy:/

[samgunn]

Thank you ladies. Sometimes this ttc struggle can feel so lonely but its so good to know that there are ppl in the world that are going through a similar journey and can still be positive. Staying positive cant hurt so here goes!

[AndrealuvsPancho]

Yes! Just relax and imagine a happy little swimmer in your tummy! I'm 11w1d after 7 miscarriages. Today we heard the strong heartbeat! I cried. Yes, I'm nervous too as 12w is my longest I carried my miss's but the doctor is positive and I'm puking still so the hormones are good. I pray every night and I send baby happy energy all day and
rub my tummy too. I hold my belly while I fall asleep. I'm in love already and I hope all of of are successful!

[Erika_W_5314]

It is totally normal I think. This is my 3rd pregnancy the first 2 I miscarried. I am 10 weeks 3 days and I have that exact same fear right now. I'm terrified of going through that kind of pain again and seeing the toll it would take on my husband but I think that the best thing to do is just keep telling yourself positive affirmations that everything will be ok. Whether you believe it now or not, if you say it and act positive despite how you feel, eventually the positive pep talks will pay off. I am a worrier and have anxiety so I understand that it's hard to feel excited when you are afraid of bad news. It will be fine and you will get good news and you will breathe that sigh of relief when you are done with the first trimester :)