Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

VENTING! House not complete.

My fiancé and I are moving into our new home and it's currently being renovated. It was previously his mother's home. Here's the problem I'm 38weeks today and due to deliver in 14 days and the house is not completed.I'm totally freaking out, I'm currently staying in my parents house with them and my other siblings. There's barely enough space for me at my parents house so it won't be any at all when my baby girl arrives. My fiancé tells me to not  stress about it and that it will be done before she comes, but I don't have any faith in that. I haven't gotten a chance to decorate her room or even ours. Just wanted to vent girls. Pray for me!
3 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
I know exactly how that feels. We started building a house in May and was told that it would be finished mid September. I'm freaking out because it's not making as good progress as what I would imagine... And there is no way I am living with my fiances parents, there's a million people there 24/7 as it is.  I don't want to be moving in to a house after Jaylon is born, it'll be too crazy trying to do everything . I want to be in before and have stuff straightened away... And my fiancé just gets mad when j freak out and worry.. I can't help it, I'm hormonal, what pregnant woman wouldn't stress in that situation.  
Helpful - 0
134578 tn?1693250592
The baby won't care if her room is complete by the time she is born, as long as she has a darkened room to nap in and a decent crib and mattress.  She *will* care if crews are using a jackhammer to rip out an old driveway outside her room, however.  So try to get the noisy work, the dusty work and the odorous work done.  The rest will take care of itself as life goes on.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Oh gosh! That's so annoying!! :( sorry for you girl! Just when you want to relax and spend time with baby when she or he arrives. I know you don't want to spend your down time cleaning and organizing! Husbands can be so insensitive and ignorant sometimes! I know my hubby is. All he does is go to work. No preparation at all for the baby! :(
Helpful - 0
Have an Answer?

You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy: Sep 2015 Babies Community

Didn't find the answer you were looking for?
Ask a question
Popular Resources
A list of national and international resources and hotlines to help connect you to needed health and medical services.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Condoms are the most effective way to prevent HIV and STDs.
PrEP is used by people with high risk to prevent HIV infection.