Its ok to help family once in awhile however when its a financial burden you have to draw a line. Have your finance talk to his mom and explain you are in no financial situation to be feeding/raising a second family. Btw fiance is partially to blame. Why does he call her at dinner time? If he did not call she cant mooch. Thats BS as to what your going through and your man has to put his foot down!
Yeah that's some bull right there and trust me I know how your feeling! My bfs mom expects him to just buy a bunch of **** for her and she makes him go and errands that she's too lazy to go do! It's annoying as fuhhh I know! And of course my bf never tells her **** but if it were for my mom he would be like eff no! It's annoying!
So I understand. Maybe try talking to him and tell him your not putting up with her bull sh it anymore....tells him it's not halls responsibility to do all that and she needs to do it on her own!
He needs to put his foot* down
You need to tell your fiance that enough is enough, and that she needs to start caring for herself and her kids. That it isn't your guys responsibility to take care of them and your own at the same time.
That his mother is taking advantage of him and your money, he needs to put his food down.