Am I Wrong? Definitely need advice ladies

[mandaKA]

My husband is in the military and I work on the military base. A couple of weeks ago,i was at work when he hung out with one of his lady soldiers. By all means, i dont mind what sex he hangs out with. I do however mind him being with this girl.and why? Because this soldier sleeps around with other married soldiers. Her husband is in bootcamp right now and she cheats on him with these soldiers. I never liked her because of the way she acts but hearing how nasty she is,made me dislike her more.if she was a nice girl my husband happened to be friends with who didnt open her legs,id feel differently and better about it. So a couple of weeks ago while i was at work,he texts me to say hes hanging with her at OUR HOUSE.i was fuming and he didnt see the problem.he felt disrespected because i should trust him he says.and i do trust my husband completely.hes never done anything to make me think otherwise.but the saying goes "i trust you.i dont trust the people youre with".i dont trust this sl*t. And for her to be in my house with my husband playing with my dogs when im not there BY THEMSELVES,im the one feeling disrespected.he apologized.then tonight,again while im at work,he came to pick me up. I noticed the car seat was positioned weird.he said she was in the car.i asked why and he said they were hanging out.i said "not at the house right?" and he said they were. ARE YOU KIDDING ME! I was livid and didnt talk the whole drive.havent really spoke to him at all because i feel like im being disrespected and hes not respecting how i feel. I dont appreciate some hussy in my home when im not there.i dont even bring people over to hang out to respect him when hes not there.am i wrong for being angry? Like i said id feel differently if she wasnt the type to wh*re around with married men. Am i overreacting? Sorry this is long.im just fed up

[Ashdub07]

I hope you were able to talk to him and I would def confront this b. just friends my a s s because a hoe will be a hoe that's all you need to know. Can't shake the wh*re tree and expect an angel to fall out!!

[lisaerin86]

My hubby was military until he got out a year ago and would never think of having another girl over without me! I would be so upset if I were you!! What exactly do they do when they hang out? And if she has such a reputation is your husband not concerned about what other people may be thinking or saying if they see him and her together? Grrr I wanna go all hormonal on her for acting like that!

[belsylvia]

I figured you might need a mans thought on what happen, so I read my fiance your post and being that in his past relationships he was cheated on a lot and his bestfriend got with his girlfriend at that time. He is very AGAINST cheating. And he said that you are completely in the right about being disrespected and that maybe you should look into this friendship cause no man is friends with a **** for no reason, there is definitely more to her just coming over.

[katngary143]

I give u props for trusting him and giving him trust im the same way I trust the people close to me but other people I really dont but I would kinda be sketchy about that situation also I mean doesnt make sense to me that he hung out with her again at the house right after u told him not to..I mean I dont want to add anymore fuel to your fire but ya I would def talk to him and set some rules...and idk gurl maybe watch your back a lil also keep us updated

[BabyRoweNov5]

Put yo foot n his a** !!! Then rip her a new one!! I hate tramps like that! An if i was u go threw his phone!! Just to make sure!

[Sarah765]

If he is a giid guy like yiu say, she may have guilted him in to having her over, then he didnt tell you right away because he knew how you felt about it and that you would be angry.  Sit down with him calmly, let him know that you trust him and believe he wont do anything with her, dont even mention her bad character, saying. I trust you but not her is like saying I dont trust you.  But let him know how important your marriage is to you, and that you want to protect it completely.  He really shouldnt be spending time alone with any woman, that it scares you, and that it can be dangerous. Ask him to give you that respect, when there is a gemale involved to hang out as a group, or make sure your there.  You deserve that, he should want the same thing from you.