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I'm sacred to tell my mom and I'm 30
I already have a daughter that's a teen. I was a teen mom. I'm now thirty and pregnant by someone I have been in a relationship with for about 3 years. We broke up and shortly after I found out I was pregnant. I don't know how to tell my mom... It's my second unplanned child out of wedlock and I'm embarrassed and ashamed to be pregnant without the fathers full support. Any suggestions? I'm 13 weeks pregnant.
I was sacred to tell my mom about my pregnancy my first was out of wedlock and we were together for maybe 4 months and she wasn't so happy at all but she came around after a few days. With my second I was married to the father of my daughter and I just asked her what would she think if I had another baby she wasn't happy but she has no choice but to get over because it's happening good luck I am sure you will be fine
Yes she does have a good relationship with my father. I think he tries to overcompensate for not having a good relationship with me through her. I have talk to her about having sex out of wedlock and she said she wouldn't want to have sex until she's married so she raises her kids with a dad. I also attend church that is very active in teaching youth not to fornicate.
Fearnilee, I'm sorry for your loss. You should probably start a new thread for that discussion, though, so this thread doesn't get side tracked.
Riribet - the bigger concern, here, to me is your daughter and not your parents. Your daughter is very very likely to repeat your pattern, of accidentally getting pregnant outside of a stable relationship. As parents, we can verbally warn our kids about pitfalls, but they tend to repeat the lifestyle they were shown as children.
Does your father have a close loving relationship with your daughter?
Riribet - the bigger concern, here, to me is your daughter and not your parents. Your daughter is very very likely to repeat your pattern, of accidentally getting pregnant outside of a stable relationship. As parents, we can verbally warn our kids about pitfalls, but they tend to repeat the lifestyle they were shown as children.
Does your father have a close loving relationship with your daughter?
Could alot of excessive bending up and down cause a miscarriage? I lost my first baby in January and have fallen pregnant again I'm only 5 weeks and my jobs in includes me pushing heavy trollies and alot of bending up and down I'm just worried that me constantly bending is going to cause problems....
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yeah u cannot be pushing heavy thingss my sister in law we go to the gym but before she got pregnant with this baby she got like 4 miscarriage as soon as she stop going to the gym she could keep her baby so pushing carrying heavy things can be one thing other than stress or for unknown things good luck
Could alot of excessive bending up and down cause a miscarriage? I lost my first baby in January and have fallen pregnant again I'm only 5 weeks and my jobs in includes me pushing heavy trollies and alot of bending up and down I'm just worried that me constantly bending is going to cause problems....
I am great full to God for giving me the strength to face the battle of raising another fatherless child alone. My faith and condemnation didn't let me have the abortion I scheduled and walked out of. Thanks for everyone's input. Here goes... I'm thinking about getting my mom a knitting kit and telling to learn how to make booties for her next grandkids instead of making it an awkward guilty confession. Hope this goes well.
I pray u all be encouraged !
My mom is 39, and she has a 21 year old (me), a 18 year old, a 12 year old, a 3 year old, and a 2 year old :) . She was also just pregnant again but lost the baby sadly . My mom was also pregnant without the father support as he was a rapist .. Just do you and do what you feel is best :) your happiness is the most important and your opinion is what matters, this is your pregnancy, not hers! Congrats by the way :)
Oh I m sorry to read such a thing :(
It s all going to be ok though :)
It s all going to be ok though :)
I work and pay my own bills. But I do live with my mom. We started living together in sept 2015. I provide for my daughter but don't own a home yet so I rent here at my moms house.
I'm mostly scared of being the what my dad will say... He's called me a ***** before and my mom doesn't defend me. I feel so alone...
I'm mostly scared of being the what my dad will say... He's called me a ***** before and my mom doesn't defend me. I feel so alone...
Well you are a grown woman hun. And whatever happens those children will be your parents grand babies. They may be up set, but they will be greatful. Lots of woman don't get as much.
Ughhh im kinda going thru the same thing...im 31 n my daughter is 8mnths and im almost 7wks now and i dont know how to tell my mom or grandma...although im still with the dad of both i still think they will be upset cuz my 1st is so young
Hi !
I m sorry to read the dad didn t want to do anything about the pregnancy.
Are you indepedent now ?
It s normal to be scared but you re big now and things are going to be quite different than when you were a teen.
It s going to be a shock for her but I m sure it s going to be ok :)
I m sorry to read the dad didn t want to do anything about the pregnancy.
Are you indepedent now ?
It s normal to be scared but you re big now and things are going to be quite different than when you were a teen.
It s going to be a shock for her but I m sure it s going to be ok :)
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