33 weeks and still having a lil no name!?:(

[brychelle]

Ok ladies so im due with my third boy feb 27th amd my bf and i are not agreeing on any baby boy names.... im pretty stuck on a name he hates and i dont much care for any of his suggestions... none of my boys are jrs so naming him after daddy is out ...he has a daughter and really wants to name his son but i jus cant settle on a name i dont like and im sure he feels this way also but im in love with the name im set on... would i be so wrong to wtick with it reguardless of the father's feelings? ... he has told me if i do it he will leave the hospital and not sign his birth certificate.... idk what to do... opinions? O and the name i love is tucker... my other two sons names are trevor and carter

[brychelle]

i cant argue much with it... i jus wish he were not beong so ridiculous and difficult... tucker is a good name and i fig at some point when hes older itll get shorten to tuck which is fine i like it and i thinks its different.... im jus tired of it veing ann arguement and dont want to feel guilty if i decide to stick with it whether he likes it or not... which is most likely to happen at this Point

[AshleyB1221]

I agree with MrsAHicks  

[brychelle]

Haahaha yea im totally not baming my son that and the things is all three of our other kids love the name tucker even his family has told him they like it.. idk what his deal is ...like i said i thibks hes bluffing weve been together over four years but yes i highly agree he is being a bit crazy over it

[MrsAHicks13]

It doesn't sound like he's being very nice with this whole situation. His willingness to not sign the certificate even though he knows its his would **** me off to no end. You aren't married, you get final say. This is terrible to say, but who knows how long he'll be around if he's willing to just up and leave over a name like that. Just doesn't seem right. Doesn't settle right in my book. And I agree, Rollin is not good. I like Tucker. When you said Rollin earlier I got the song Rollin down the river stuck in my head! That's not good. Lol

[brychelle]

Yes hes stubborn but i am too and im jus really pretty sure his name is going to be tucker lol i jus feel bad that it may force me to have to give him my last name i hate to think my bf wouls actually do that... im not sure he would i think hes jus trying to say that to get me to cave but at thw same time i really dont kno... but either way im pretty sure my sob is entitled to his fathers last name depending paternity test?? Right??

[AshleyB1221]

I don't blame you for being mad! you need to like the name you will be calling your son for the rest of his life!! You can't gave him knowing that you will despise his name, it starts you off with a bad taste in your mouth. I'm not a fan of the name Rollin at all..tell him that you're carrying him, your going through all the work and pain and sickness and the labor and delivery so if he refuses to make a comprise and work with you than your just going to name him without his say and that's that. He seems like the type that refuses to budge and wants his way or the highway from what your saying. That *****, I'm sry!

[brychelle]

He wants to name him rollin... and i jus cant do it... plus i want all three of my boys name to kinda roll together i have offered every er name i liked such as parker,gunner,oliver,tanner,connor, and tucker is my fav of all.... i even tried to get him to pick one that kinda went with his daughters name i asked him if he like Bentley her name is baylee... and i dont even want to name him Bentley lol i jus wanted to see if hed agree to somethibg and he said maybe on that one... ugh im jus to the point where im telling him its going to be tucker and he gets all mad and says ill do it by myself then.... sorry im rambling im jus really bothered about this

[AshleyB1221]

That was starting to happen to us too. I was getting so aggravated at the fact that every name I mentioned he just automatically said no without even thinking about it! He was so set on having it be Macklin that he refused to even try and like anything else that's why I just gave up and decided on the boy/girl compromise. It just wasn't worth fighting and getting stressed over. At lead the name isn't horrible. What is the name your bf likes? Do you absolutely hate it?

[brychelle]

Thank you... im not sure i feel ive tried to compromise and he jus isnt willing he says tucker is completely out and so ive tried gobs of other choices and he still says he likes none of them... thats why im to this well if it comes down to it ill have the final say point...not that i wanna be that way im jus tired of it being so difficult... and thank you i love all three names too:)

[AshleyB1221]

P.s. I love all those names!!!

[AshleyB1221]

Is there any compromising? Maybe you pick first name and he picks middle or something like that? My husband and I could not agree on names at all. So before we even found out the sex, we decided that if it was a girl I would pick first he would pick middle and if it was a boy than he would pick first and me middle. I was absolutely convinced o was having a girl so I wasn't too worried at all. I was wrong! It's a boy and I let him choose the name. He chose Macklin, I don't completely love it but I'm learning to like it a Lil more every day...hopefully you guys can come to some sort of agreement. Good luck!!