Distanced from s.o.

[gabbi_lopez]

I have been really sexually distanced from my s.o. lately && I feel really bad because he said he feels like I don't want anything to do with him anymore. I don't know why I am like this but I can't bring myself to have sex with him && I get really annoyed when he touches my face or tries to kiss me or touch me sexually && I don't even like to sleep next to him . idk why I am like this . please help . does anyone else get like this ?? I'm only 10 weeks .

[maani123]

M 27 weeks n i dont enjoy sex now but my hubby wants to have sex so,my hubby n i are more into anal because i want him to be happy..u hang on for few more weeks everything will be ok

[BeeThreeBaby31]

Hi, I'm 25 wks. I went through this with all three of my pregnancies with my husband in the first trimester. And he felt the same way. But there was nothing I could do about it. I just couldn't get in the mood. Second trimester, whole different ball game. He'll probably be running from you lol. I read somewhere that during the second trimester due to increase in blood flow in "that area" increases our s*x drive lol. Hang in there mum. It's perfectly normal.

[AnnieBrooke]

It's probably your hormones, or even a bodily response saying "I'm pregnant, I don't need more sperm now thanks."  But this does not prevent hand jobs, the more often the better because it might convince him that you don't think he is repulsive.  

[Reba1220]

I'm 8 weeks and I am the same way. It also happened during my last pregnanacy too. I try explaining it to my s.o in the nicest way possible but I still think he takes offense. Pregnancy hormones can really mess with you. It does get get better throughout the pregnancy though so hang in there. Pregnancy brings a lot of different obstacles for us couples but you just have to work through them together. It wouldn't hurt if the men could have some patience too lol

[gabbi_lopez]

Oh yayy I have hope then .
Yes men need to practice their patience too .

[harleym091]

I had a friend who was the same. It did last up untill her 2nd trimester but from then on it changed. Its the changes your going through. There is no wrong way to feel so just try and relax  .

[gabbi_lopez]

Thank you so much that helps a lot . I'm so glad I'm almost onto my second trimester . its so hard because this is my s.o. first child && in January we had a miscarriage && now this so I feel like he isn't able to see the beauty of creating a child && I feel like he thinks its just a depressing experience . I hope he can understand && just hang on for a few more weeks.

[gabbi_lopez]

Thank you guys so much it takes off such a heavy weight from my shoulders to know it will get better .

[harleym091]

Im so sorry to hear that. You both feel better in time and it is maybe a bit of nerves from the miscarrige that you feel sexually distant which is also fine. Just dont put to much pressure on yourself. It will all be ok.

[gabbi_lopez]

Thank you . I hope so .

[bonniejohnson]

That's crazy I never Hurd of that before I'm 13 weeks and I love having sex with my husband and sleeping next to him. I don't know why you feel that way hope things get better for you . Best of luck to you

[gabbi_lopez]

I know it sucks because I feel horrible && I'm making him feel horrible && idk why this is happening .
Thanks I hope I can figure this out or that it gets better .maybe its just because the first trimester feels so ****** && when I don't feel good I don't want nobody to touch me .