Having a healthy baby is most important. That's all I pray about... I just want my body back
Sometimes being anxious causes us pregnant ladies to go a bit overboard which in my case...would make my husband overwhelmed and shut down so I've been making a point to politely suggest/ask his opinion on things before I demand them and it seems to be helping- it's our first so we both are new to this whole nesting thing- due in 11 days and there is so much that still needs to be done but I'm okay- if it doesn't get done it's not the end of the world and regardless, I will be thankful for a happy healthy baby.
Due.to get ready!i am.due in 11 days!but i think we should never get distant from our hubbies, being too busy with what we want. It's so beautiful snd find the right way for both!
I know what you mean about husband though, mine wasn't on board or being helpful so instead of arguing face to face I wrote everything down on an email to tell him how I was feeling and what I needed from him to help me get ready for baby and he's on board now. Glad I did it now x
I'm decorating at the moment and due on four weeks. House is on half and been scraping the paper off the walls this morning. Once the bedroom and nursery is decorated and carpet is down I can then clean. Hope baby doesn't come early xx
I'm "due" April 1st. And I'm already 1cm dilated as of THREE days ago. I have yet to go to the doctor. But have ANOTHER appointment next week on Wed. Just had my SHOWER :) and once I going out that I was 1cm, I kicked it into high gear and put all his gifts away and cleaned his room and disinfected his room as well as ours. Soon after I had a nervous breakdown bassist I felt my house was not clean enough. Causing me to go crazy on my husband, and a fight. :( NOW he's in the office sleeping not talking to me all day today. I just feel like we are both on two different pages! I feel like to me my SON is number one, getting ready is#1 and being READY too. But to him it's like I'm crazy cleaning and cleaning, and more cleaning.... so I'm with you on being over this PREGNANT thing. I want my body back, and I want to feel normal again. But mostly I want my SON in my arms HEALTHY and safe. I want my husband back too. I feel so distant from him right now. I just want this to be OVER. :) I'm glad to hear youre ready!!! Wish you luck!